Is that a problem for you to date a woman who is a virgin?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah, because a woman who's a virgin at my age is an extinct species. Otherwise if she did exist you do have to wonder why she's still a virgin (not because her being a virgin is a problem, it's definitely not). I'll give you an example. Olympian Lola Jones has been very vocal about remaining a virgin, saving it as a gift for her husband. Lola Jones is now 41 and still has not found her husband (Or maybe she has many times but just past on him). Understand what I'm saying? I admire Lola's fortitude and commitment to remaining pure. But one has to ask has she set her expectations so high that it'll never be attainable for her to ever find a husband?

Bottom line, to remain pure is a sign of strength and should be commended. I would prefer a woman who is pure. But I'd rather have a woman who's had a couple partners, learned who she is, what she wants and is able communicate it clearly, then a woman who is a virgin BUT is dreaming for a fairytale.

I think most guys feel this way. Ideally they'd like thier wife be a virgin. But relationships are much much more than just purity

I hope you've understood what I was trying to convey here. If not feel free to ask questions. I'll try to clarify anything.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes and no. If she’s your age, still a virgin than that raises some questions. Like why? Now if she’s younger, maybe up to her mid 20s no. I would attribute that to her being in college. Still figuring out her life. Possibly waiting for marriage. But if you’re in your 30s for a woman I think again it raises some questions. For men who are still a virgin at that age, no really because most women think a majority of men are ugly. Most women can get laid by a dude if they choose to do so. Most men can’t, especially if he’s ugly.

Lalalove11 · Accepted Answer

I was a virgin until 22 it puzzled guys but trust me it is not an issue at all. Especially for the right guy, why would he mind? ❤️🙏

PBandJ_Nerd · Accepted Answer

No. I'm one so it just means we get to explore everything and anything together.

Summeroflove · Answer

For me it isn’t because I want someone to have the same morals and standards as I do. I suppose it depends on why someone’s a virgin. If they want to have sex but can’t that’s one thing, but virgins by choice are another story.

There are plenty of dudes who want this virgin woman, but refuse to keep themselves pure.

Im not saying anyone is perfect but it depends on genuine repentance.

It’s a lot like girls who want this gentleman who treats them right… Howeverr they wanna sleep with the bad boys.

A lot of people are disappointed when they set standards for others they refuse to meet themselves

Avicenna · Answer

It's only a problem if she wants to remain a virgin.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I am 69 years old and nuns are not allowed to date!

Lliam · Answer

No, unless she was determined to remain one until after marriage. I wouldn't date a woman who was "saving" herself or who thought virginity was a virtue.

If she was interested in finally becoming a woman in a long-term, monogamous relationship, though, her virginity wouldn't be a deterrent at all.

paledreams · Answer

In my daydreams my 24 year old girlfriend is a virgin as am I at either 29 or 20 lol - I enjoy my daydreams as dreams are as good as reality life goals in that it's only my illusion and just for me. after all, I just go back to reality after snapping out of daydreaming 😛🫣👀 whenever I have time of just daydreaming safely, timely, all the time 🧙🏻😁🫢

Anonymous · Answer

I have to go with the view that no it wouldn't be a problem at all unless she was planning to stay that way. It's attractive unless it's an indication that there's some kind of problem and she doesn't plan to ever have sex or doesn't want to.

If she's under 30 it's attractive that she's a virgin. If she is over 30 it becomes a lot less attractive because it seems like there is some kind of a problem.

SotiCoto · Answer

I only devirginised someone once. She was way too tight. Bad experience. Decided not to do that again. Figured some guy with a smaller dick could get first pickings.

tzdc21 · Answer

Not a problem at all. I'm fact ideally most guys would love to date and marry a virgin. But that's the same as asking for a unicorn nowadays so.

meepmeeperton · Answer

No, my girlfriend was a virgin before I popped her cherry. If anything it’s a plus.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

It's not a problem for me right now but I don't know how I'll feel about it when I get more experience.

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

Nope. In fact it would be a source of pride to know l was the one she waited on.

Anonymous · Answer

A person can always say they are a virgin and lie about it. One out of a million people might be a virgin.

MasterKS · Answer

Virgin is not every-once cup of tea, guys not like being a teacher. popping a cherry is kind of experience some surely like it, I dont mind to try virgin, i did enjoyed with them.

Anonymous · Answer

Virgins are only worth the trouble to other virgins.

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

No. I'm a virgin myself, so, it'd make me feel less self conscious about it

soe11 · Answer

No not at all.  It's much more happier for me.

Anonymous · Answer

only those without sexual discipline will say no

Theodoricus · Answer

If someone see it as a problem, then stay away from him.

DextroShade · Answer

It is at your age, it is obvious something is very wrong with you.

Shiningtempest · Answer

I'd rather be a bachelor than date a woman who isn't a virgin.

mayurr · Answer

Why women don't date virgin man. That's what your question should be.

Jason2469 · Answer

I have never dated a non virgin and I certainly never married and had 3 daughters with one almost 20 years ago

Anonymous · Answer

If she is wanting to wait for marriage or has issues with not wanting to have sex then it's a deal breaker

laly520 · Answer

why would being a virgin be a problem?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, if she don't put out, how do I know what I'm signing up for if we get married? It kinda violates the concept of informed consent

LazerBean · Answer

Men generally do not care as long as they get sex.

CrabCakes11 · Answer

No. It doesn’t matter to me

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I wish that was my problem

LiamJHayden · Answer

No, it would not be.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

A problem... No. It would be most ideal

Iron_Man · Answer

No, it’s excellent

Emmytexrex · Answer

No it's not I love it

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Ofc not, this would be ideal!

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

That would be a plus for me.

In_Trance · Answer

Yes it would be a problem

Pterodon · Answer

Not at all. I have dated one

Pohjolan · Answer

I mean I could fix that.

NathanDavis · Answer

it wasn't

jahaims · Answer

Preferable

OtterMan68 · Answer

no, it's not

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Yes not interested

moneymagnet24 · Answer

For me yes

shortster · Answer

Nope

vicphilips · Answer

Nope?

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