I had a crush on a guy and I told him at a party. He replied: Tonight I’m seeing a girl but any other night I’m interested in you. WTF?

[Anonymous]

Is expressing my interest giving a « I just want to hook up » vibe? I was shocked at his response

[NamerOfStars]

So you've just expressed interest for the first time, and are shocked that doesn't immediately want to leap to exclusivity without even having gone out with you once?

One thing at a time, woman.

[Asker]

Not exclusivity, just let’s go on a date or get to know each other more before jumping to bed. One thing at a time, man.

[NamerOfStars]

He said "any other night [he's] interested in you". Why do you assume that automatically means he wants to leap to sex?

Is it "be a moron day" on GAG today or something?

[Akam93]

That's a hook up vibe. Tell you don't want just a hook up. If not than move on from his sorry ass.

[Asker]

You’re right I should definitely set the record straight! I’ve been avoiding him because I was feeling insulted but what the heck

[Akam93]

Unless he's a player. I would ask around also.