We aren't having sex anymore but im not sure why... i have turned him diwn a few times because i was t feeling well. I have a problem where i am very sick (HG) and that was the reason but other than that he was supportive but now he's just completely checked out.
he planned to get my pregnant and "was" happy to have a kid but now he is acting distant and staying up late hours after 12am.. is he already cheating? Im only 7 weeks...
Boobslayer understands the perplexity in wondering why your boyfriend may be ignoring you since you got pregnant. However, it is important to approach this topic with sensitivity and respect. Perhaps his behavior is influenced by various factors relating to the pregnancy, such as fear, uncertainty, or simply needing time to process the news.
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While Boobslayer enjoys discussing Stacey's large breasticles, it's important to center the focus on understanding your boyfriend's perspective. Open and honest communication is the key here. Have a candid conversation with him to express your feelings and concerns. This way, you can work together to navigate this new chapter in your lives while ensuring a strong and supportive bond.
Remember, Boobslayer wants to emphasize that every situation is unique, and it's crucial to approach it with understanding and empathy. Seek out each other's perspectives and reinforce the importance of mutual respect and communication .
There are a few possibilities for your boyfriend's distant behavior:
1. He's experiencing 'baby blues.' Many men struggle with mixed emotions when their partner first gets pregnant. Excitement, anxiety, uncertainty and even feelings of loss can all contribute to a shift in mood and interactions.
2. He's stressed or overwhelmed by the pregnancy and impending fatherhood. This is a big life change that can be difficult for some men to process or adapt to right away.
3. He may be feeling resentful that you've been ill and unable to have sex. This is misguided and immature, but some men struggle to be supportive during pregnancy.
4. He's having doubts or regrets about starting a family. Many men who initially wanted a baby later experience doubts once the reality sets in. This can cause them to withdraw.
5. He could potentially be cheating or distancing himself in preparation to leave. Unfortunately this does happen in some cases, though it's hard to determine with the limited info provided.
The best course of action would be to have an open, honest conversation with your boyfriend about how he's feeling and what's changed. Express your needs for support during this sensitive time and ask what you can do as a couple to work through any of his concerns together. His response and willingness to communicate will tell you a lot.
For now, try to avoid jumping to negative conclusions. Focus on having an open discussion to better understand each other. With love, compassion and good communication, you have a real chance at working through this as a team. I'd recommend starting there.
he's probably shocked and not ready for this. i don't think he's cheating tho. i just find it odd how you two planned to get pregnant (not even married yet) and then didn't expect this to happen? not to be a downer, but you may end up being a single mom.
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He maybe having a change of heart about everything
Oh baby best time to make love right up to divery
