Agree or disagree... men don't care about a woman's achievements?

[Anonymous]

For example, if Shakira or Beyonce walked through the door, they wouldn't be impressed by their mega star status or their accomplished careers as grammy winning singers and dancers

But rather by their hollywood good looks.

Men are visual, women are more status driven. Correct me if i'm wrong.

[Grovermint]

I would be impressed by her accomplishments, too. Many situations are rather dismal and require hard work. What you are stating is simply a stereotype based on the average male and female. Everyone has their own preferences. I would prefer a woman that overcame adversity vs someone that looks like a goddess.

[ProbablyClueless]

I disagree. High achieving women are interesting.

[BasedBaeBecca]

I think it's hard to generalize the preferences and behavior of all men or all women, since we are all individuals with our own unique personalities and tastes. However, there may be some truth to the idea that men are generally more likely to be attracted to a woman's physical appearance than her accomplishments or achievements. On the other hand, women may place more value on a man's status and success in life. However, it's important to remember that each individual can have different preferences, and ultimately, the key to a successful relationship is mutual respect and understanding.

[Nikki1989]

Well, some men must care because I hear it from men regularly. Obviously, some online trolls will have issues with successful women or at least pretend they don't care.

[Asker]

I guess so. Not all of them are driven by the same interests but for the majority of them what I've said holds true.

[JackCarter]

I never consider actors and singers or all the celebrities like they "achieved" something... whether male or female

But no, except for a few weirdos... most of us love seeing women, especially our loved ones get what they deserve in life

( I loved seeing her become a pilot which she always dreamt of)

[rigmarole]

Both are gross. There's nothing impressive about a pop artist that makes bad music and prostitutes themselves on stage. They have no class. It doesn't matter how much money they make doing it. The fact that they involve themselves in Hollywood culture and accept awards like a Grammy makes them even less desirable as a person. Neither are good looking women.

[Anonymous]

For the majority, nowadays, I just don't care and am not interested in people overall. Especially women. I am just not in the zone at this moment.

Some of my YT feed is filled with lawyers retelling their client's experiences in the matrimonial courts. The judges there use intimidation tactics to force the husbands to consent forms for monthly money, etc. Going as far as ordering the husbands to give the pet animals allowance as well.

From my POV, it is simply not worth it to be thinking about girls and women anymore. At least in my country. As the majority of girls are like that.

So, I have just given it up. Not interested in women as a whole.

[inhua]

both men and women are visual but they respond differently to visuals

men visually seek out youth, fertility and good habits

women visually seek out power, dominance and genetic worthiness

[Anonymous]

It's definitely true women are more status and resource driven. And yes, men are more visual, but for men serious about finding a good woman as a life partner, looks are only a small piece of the picture. Character, attitides, values and life priorities are super important. But men don't care about a woman's status, income or accomplishments nearly as much as women care about men's.

[RavVid]

You are right. I would be impressed by Kyle's femininity as well as her ass. It is not all tits and ass, femininity counts too - in fact more.

[Asker]

who the hell is kyle?

[RavVid]

Australian singer, popular in UK and Australia but never has been in the US.

[Asker]

You mean Kylie.

[Asker]

As in Kylie Minogue.

[RavVid]

Yeah that's it - it is 4 am and only one coffee down. Obviously I should have another so I spell better... excuse me.

[KrakenAttackin]

Men are far less impressed by a corporate woman with a corner office and big salary.

[Asker]

I'm not talking about corporate women. I'm talking about beyonce.

[KrakenAttackin]

What about Beyonce? I would hit it but that's about it.

[Asker]

Is the fact that she's got the most grammy awards in history not even remotely impressive?

[KrakenAttackin]

Sure, but it doesn't make her more attractive as a woman.

[Asker]

this question wasn't about attraction. It was about what a man is impressed by/ what he respects in a woman.

[KrakenAttackin]

What a man especially respects in a woman are the same things that attract him to her: purity, femininity, compassion, kindness, faithfulness. The qualities of a good wife are much more respected by men than any commercial success.

[DextroShade]

You are 100% correct. Men value beauty, femininity, and purity; it's women who value achievements.

[MementoMori777]

Yep you basically nailed it

[Asker]

Sigh. Don't you find the superficiality a bit sad?

[MementoMori777]

Yes and no cause it's not possible to fall in love with just looks, a woman can be the most stunning and beautiful woman but if she's ugly on the inside then her looks can only get her so far, you don't gotta be stunning, just appealing to the eyes, your looks attract them and your personality does the rest, the reason why I said yes is cause chasing just looks or status can backfire on someone, they can go right over one of the best souls out there just cause they were focused on this superficial stuff but no cause in ways it plays a part in society, the key is to not be stuck up on these things and be open and flexible when it comes to these things.

[Anonymous]

OK, you're corrected.😆

[Asker]

I'm corrected or i'm correct?

[Opinion Owner]

You're corrected. 👍

[Asker]

Well then if I'm corrected why don't you actually DO the correcting and tell me where I went wrong?

[Opinion Owner]

Just because men are not as judgmental about what a woman has or has not achieved does not mean they don't care. No, I would care about Shakira and Beyonce. Because nothing the have accomplished would make up for thier terrible personalities. But of course I respect all the work they've put in to get where the are.

[In_Trance]

agree