He said he missed me and then came to visit me the next day then a day later he tells me he needs space and time for himself nothing personal?

[Anonymous]

When a guys says he needs space for himself, it's nothing personal

[DaveJord]

Hummmm... I would say yes, it's nothing personal. I mean guys can actually be very complicated, but it's just not sexy, right?

But in this story, you tell, I think you should take it personally. This guy came to visit you because he was looking for something. He found what he found and decided no matter what it was he was looking for you didn't provide it or do it for him. So now he wants space... it's a rejection bottom line. He might come back around and change his mind later, but for now it's a NO THANK YOU!

I would be upset because WTF, man! What type of emotional bullshit are you trying to pull? Like is he some deep and sensitive type or i she just trying to use you? I don't know but its BS to me.

I have had woman do this to me. I mean it only pissed me off, if we had never had sex, even when had had sex together it's still complete bullshit... but at least I got laid. If some back later, I honestly only see a person who is offering me sex and not much else.

But honestly its emotional manipulation and build shit they are pulling.

[Lockey_]

Not sure if the guy here is "complicated", it sounds more like straight forward being a jerk to me :D

[DaveJord]

@Lockey_ I agree, but the rational as to why he is being a jerk is the same answer.

[Lockey_]

That was kind of a zen reply, i didn't expect that. It made me think for a while and you are right, the "original" reasons for the behaviour might be pretty complex... Respect!

[jahaims]

He just wanted hook ups