I asked him to take a break on the situationship then after days I sent him “I miss you” he ignored me?

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Did he lost interest?
I mean he kept saying that I don’t initiate conversations first and used to accuse me of cheating constantly and I respected his attitude and drama. After I texted him he started posting stories of how successful he is as if he’s doing better or found the love of his life when days before he even called because I wanted to cut ties with him.

I have deleted him from all social media. He just added me back on TikTok though but I eliminated him from everywhere.
It hurts because I’m having a mental break down and to be honest with his attitude only proof me that I’m falling deep into a hole by myself and all this time (3months) his attention was fake.

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Ugh, sorry you're going through all that drama, it really sucks. Honestly it sounds like this guy was way more trouble than he was worth. Accusing you of cheating and being super controlling with needing you to message first all the time... that's not okay. You were right to want to cut ties and take a break. The fact that he ignored you when you said you missed him speaks volumes - I think he lost interest but just liked having you around to boost his ego or something. Now that he knows you're not hanging on his every word anymore, he's acting all cocky posting stories about being successful without you. Major red flag. Sounds like he was just playing games the whole time and didn't really care about your feelings. You're well rid of him, trust me. I know it's hard right now, but you deserve so much better than someone who treats you like that! Take time to heal, lean on your friends, and don't look at his social media anymore - it'll only make you feel worse. Hold your head high knowing you didn't do anything wrong. The trash took itself out. You've got this!

ChicoFromThe305 · Accepted Answer

Don't be complicated, you broke it off and thought whenever you wanted that you can just come back and things will be back to normal, you wanting a break probably killed the whole thing, some people believe that breaks are a sign of incompatibility, to some it's just a turn off and that break could've just given him a moment to think on what he wants to do, it's possible he could've made up his mind that it's not worth it to him, it could also be he found someone else throughout that time or he is assuming you went to someone else through that break, the possibilites are endless really

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Yeah, asking for a break is an indication that you're doubting things with the other person. Most people don't take that well.

Skinhead-1979 · Answer

He may be truthful in what he says... but it feels he is playing you.

Regardless... This is not healthy for either one of you; cut ties and go your own way.

Might be difficult, but your well-being comes first

(same as his of course, but I am talk to you now)

Anonymous · Answer

There's no such thing as a situationship! You're plenty old enough to have known that by now.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Well asked for a break that's what you got

HumbleDragon · Answer

Him to you

Danny_dan92 · Answer

He’s sad

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