Me and this online guy friend of mine found eachother at online Novel writing platform and we used to talk a lot, he even propose writing something together (which is still unfinished till today) due to my busy routine I didn't pay attention to our connection and it fade away.
After 6 years now I saw our unfinished project and I reached out to him on Google hangouts cos I wanted to know how he was doing. He replies back after 12 hours with exceptionally long paragraph updating about his life and telling me that he is still studying rightnow.
We started texting a lot and I was amazed that he remembered the little details about me. And I would ask him about his guitar concert that he always wanted to do. He was flirtatious once so I didn't like that and after that I guess I broke his heart, those were just funny words, having no actual meaning I shouldn't be too surprised by that but daymn I was.
Things starting going slow, the texting slows down and replies start taking weeks and months. So I stopped when he said I'm sorry after 2 months. (He was apologizing for the late replies and I thought he meant that our texting relationship is not good)
9 months passes by and I hit him again for something important. He replied after 2 weeks said he didn't see my text and he was waiting all this time for me to text him and that he misses me a lot, he didn't know how to contact me ( it's a lie cos we have each other contact info) I consoled him and said that I miss him back too. But now it's been 1.5 month he hasn't replied. Should I see this as ghosted or should I wait, or should I just move on? It's so difficult. Have I done something wrong to provoke him? Why doesn't he confront me, cos am I just some online girl to him?
