Why would a guy pretend he’s not seeing anyone when talking to his ex?

[Anonymous]

Just thoughts. I got together with my ex and we hooked up, I told him about my one night stands and my last break up, he said he didn’t see anyone since we broke up, not even a one night stand (actually he slept with one of my acquaintances and he doesn’t know I know) Why would he lie?

[DaveJord]

Because he doesn't know you know and doesn't want to tell you. I am its one thing to hook up with someone, it's another thing to hook up with someone else you know... and it could result in drama if he is unsure how you would react.

Thats the thing about hooking up with exs, the door is always open for the possibility of back sliding back into a relationship. So, you hooked up and he is not bothered by it, because he knows he hooked up as well. But he doesn't want you know about it... why? Because woman pull this shit on guys all the time. They say shit to get the guy to admit to shit, then get mad, or use that info against me him later.

So, he is just playing the odds here. Honestly if you two were not dating at the time, it's none of you r business. I did the same thing with my ex-girlfriend. then we got back together and eventually married.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Because it’s not your business at all

[Asker]

I need to explain that we are good friends, we tell each other about things like that, anyway.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Keep telling yourself that

[Asker]

Dude don’t answer if the question bugs you what’s with this rudeness tf

[CallmeTheKnight]

I answered it and you just don’t like it. I don’t have to be nice to you at all, but the fact that you want him to admit who he’s slept with is bizarre af. It’s simply not your business and has nothing to do with you

[Asker]

Ok Dr House

[HollyK21]

Asker, his response may sound blunt or rude to you, but it’s true. You believe that you and your ex tell each other everything, but if that were the case then you would know about him sleeping with your friend. You’re not one of the “guys”, not when sex is involved. He’s keeping his sexual experiences a secret from you, for his own personal reasons.

[provokeesmokee]

He's your ex, he doesn't have owe you anything.

[Asker]

Of course, I understand that.