My boyfriend asks me everyday “How much do you love me?” how am I supposed to respond to that?

[Anonymous]

Before I answer, he always says “I love you more than you love me”, what the hell. What does he want me from me

[Marcuslrh]

Sounds like he is insecure, and scared to lose you so he pushes the whole I love you more daily sounds desperate really not very attractive I can Imagine 😅sorry you have to deal with that. Not sure what you can do though either it's a weird thing to do like it's a competition on who loves who more?🥴 maybe ask him why he thinks he loves you more or why do you think I love you less? Not that asking them could lead to a happy conversation but I guess he is asking for it being like that so just do it. Unless he just wants to fight🤷‍♂️

[OlderAndWiser]

Why don't you ask him what he means by that comment?

[Asker]

He gets extremely angry and changes the subject

[OlderAndWiser]

Something is wrong. Love is not a competition.

[scooogy]

Thoughtfully count to torself on your fingers

[Staximus]

How much do you really love him though?

[Asker]

How can I answer that question? I don’t get it, I haven’t kicked him to curb, so I do

[Staximus]

What do you mean "how can I answer that question?" It's a fairly simple and straightforward question when I am asking you and not him. It's a question that you don't know how to answer or are refusing to answer. So do you love him a little, a lot, or more than any other guy you ever met?
Like if he died and you had the power, would you batter down the gates of hell and steal him back from the devil? Or just put flowers on his grave every year? Or even just move on with your life? Like where does he stand in your life? Is he the love of your life or just the guy who is your boyfriend at the moment, or somewhere in between? This is not a very difficult concept for someone to grasp. Where does he stand with you? He wants to know. Just the fact that you haven't kicked him to the curb doesn't mean much. It sounds like he knows you don't love him as much as he does you because you can't answer the question, unless I am missing the situation.