Why would a guy tell a girl who’s his bestie he doesn’t want to ever talk to her anymore because she didn’t to be his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Hours later he said he was joking.

[ProbablyClueless]

Either they genuinely are besties and he only sees her as a friend, or he super definitely does not only see her as a friend and has decided that he's willing to be friend zoned rather than lose contact with her. l

[Asker]

He started acting this way when I said I really like this guy I met a year ago.

[ProbablyClueless]

There's your proof; he doesn't see you as a friend

[Asker]

He literally asked to be my best friend when he first met me.

[Asker]

I think he’s a user because he brag to others not me that he got head from a retard girl

[ProbablyClueless]

As I've gone through life, I've realized that people do all kinds of wishy-washy, socially clueless stuff, and that they often don't actually mean the things they say.

[Asker]

He also said I’m dumb and strange too for him.

[DerekC321]

That's a shitty thing to do. That's not a bestie.

[spartan55]

Your 'bestie' wants to be your boyfriend.