Guys what extent would you take if you found the girl you really liked?

[Tinana]

What actions in particular. Would you go above and beyond?

[exitseven]

I was planning on moving to Colorado maybe forever. I was going out there with another kid. I even helped him fix up his car so it would make the trip. I had impacted wisdom teeth and I wanted to get them out before I left. I had them removed in the hospital and it took a few days before the swelling went down. I called this kid to tell him I was good to go. His mother told me he left without me. I was angry but I was still in town to go to my family's vacation home on Memorial Day. I was cleaning up the yard when a group of 8 or 9 people walk by. My friend was with me and he started talking to them. I just kept working until I noticed a girl wearing cutoff jean shorts and worn out old sneakers. She had the prettiest smile I ever saw. I tried to talk to her but she totally shut me down. Later I went down to the beach and tried again and this time she told me that she just graduated from college and she lived near where I lived. She would not tell me her name because she didn't want anything to do with me. I ended up going to her college library and getting her yearbook. I went through the whole thing until I spotted her picture with that same smile. I got her name and was able to look her up in the phonebook (this was the 80's). She asked me how I tracked her down and I told her. She was actually impressed that I went through all that trouble. I asked her if she would go out with me and she said that she was starting a new job out of state and was leaving the next day. I chalked it up to my crappy luck and forgot about it. A month or so later I ran into her again at the beach and we spent a lot of time together and decided we would try to date each other. A year and a half later we got married.

[Tinana]

Awww

[DarkWinterNights]

I’m extremely reserved as I’ve been taken advantage of in the past. It takes awhile for me to trust and I really have to see value and reciprocity before I invest in a relationship.

[RealMarek]

I would do what I did when it happened to me. I would ask her if she’s up for a date and see where it goes from there.

[Anonymous]

If it seemed like she possibly felt the same way, I would do whatever it took.

[Anonymous]

Not aggressive actions. I would talk to her. If she doesn’t show interest in some type of form, I move on… no girl is worth it if she doesn’t have the same level of energy

[EaterPeter]

They are all deadly measures sooner or later you die happiness is mostly short lived

[spartan55]

That would depend how on she acted.