- mentions that he is moving / wants to move
- is busy for moving and packing up
- constantly asked to meet up and asked out on date multiple times but he seemed to be a terrible planner so never really worked out …
- asks again today if I would like to meet and says that he really wants to meet after he moves
- says he is still a bit unsatisfied with the new joke he is planning to move.
(All this happened in a span of 2 weeks, my friends says he’s using me but I would like a guys perspective on this)
- is busy for moving and packing up
- constantly asked to meet up and asked out on date multiple times but he seemed to be a terrible planner so never really worked out …
- asks again today if I would like to meet and says that he really wants to meet after he moves
- says he is still a bit unsatisfied with the new joke he is planning to move.
(All this happened in a span of 2 weeks, my friends says he’s using me but I would like a guys perspective on this)
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Appears he is probably not that guy in the pictures, if there are any. Or maybe he is dating several girls at once and you are last on his date night list. I mean that is normal on dating sites. No one is expected to be exclusive until it is agreed upon by both parties. If he is avoiding getting together with you he could be catfishing you and may live in his mother's basement, has not job, and no car. I can't see, after all the "can't meets" that you have not written this one off by now.
Hmm ok, but the thing is, we realized that we have mutual friends and exchanged social media too. But my friends (not mutual friends w him) thinks he may want to crash into my place?
Then time to move.
'unsatisfied with the new joke' what does that mean? How do you feel he is using you?
unsatisfied with the home I meant! My friends just assumed he wanted to live w me or something based on that description. He also does have quite a few female friends (but that may be because the school he went to had more females)
That's a pretty big assumption by your friends... come on
Ahh, I see, by the way, I didn’t reply to a message he sent on the weekend and he sent a follow up message today but he still didn’t seem very happy. Do u think he was upset? Also, if we do meet any tips ikr you may want to give me?
So how long have you been talking about meeting?
Around 2 weeks I would say or 1.5
That's odd that he hasn't wanted to meet.
He initiates multiple times but it never worked out :(
Why are you giving him too many chances?
Using you for free housing? I don't know any guy who would live off a woman. That's just embarrassing.