28F, I’m leaning towards bad luck. I’m very introverted & not the friendliest but I don’t think I’m intimidating. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, it’s not like a runway model & guys just never approach me. I’m told guys look at me but they never do anything about it & I’m too shy. I know there’s nothing wrong with me, most women seem to get guys so easily. That’s why I’ve been on and off the apps since I was maybe 18, getting matches have never been a prob. Convo always fades, ghosting, lack of interest (goes both ways) & some guys who are crazy. I’ve tried a lot of them, usually I stick with Hinge. It’s always a pattern of the guys I want who don’t want me back & the ones that want me I don’t like back. For maybe the past year I’ve become less and less interested, I reply to matches/msgs every couple of days? A few people have said maybe I’m asexual (haven’t had sex or masturbated in years), assume I’m gay or I’m unsure of what I want. Maybe they’re all wrong & simply I haven’t found the right person?
Question regarding dating apps has been asked A Lot of times and all the time the answer is basically the same that has been confirmed many Many times already. When it comes to dating apps ANY dating app, the only people who are happy and Very successful with it, are top 15% of men and Huge majority of women who simply want to be praised, validated, worshipped have sex and feel empowered. The rest, which is 85% of guys and a lot of women who actually DO want to find their potential husbands are wasting their time, emotions and money, because they cannot get what they came to find.
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Apps are impossible in dating. People in person….
Neither, it's just poor dating practice. Dating apps have a higher percentage of losers, and having poor communication skills is going to make it harder for you even without the dating apps.
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