Do any men get attracted more to scared little girl type women?

[Johnnayerishot]

Are you attracted to chicks who give you a scared little kitten little girl daughter vibe based on their personality or to women who have a mommy figure intelligent vibe?

im the former and I’m extremely scared and shy. Lol. It’s just who I am and I’m an adult so this isn’t a phase MOM!!! I’m attracted to men who I perceive as way smarter than me and see through me and who give me a daddy vibe. ❤️

[Orion84]

I wouldn't say that I'm specifically attracted, or not, to either of those descriptions.

I do enjoy being appreciated for my intelligence, and being looked up to as a protector. Some shyness in a woman is cute, but like many things, an excessive amount can be more of a turn off.

I'm happy to be the "leader" in the relationship, but I'd rather not feel like I'm dating my daughter, either. That, to me, is kind of creepy.

No offense intended, of course.

[Johnnayerishot]

Ok thanks. I need a man who’s comfortable being my daddy lol. I’m very retarded and I fumble over my words and am socially insecure. People say I am extremely quiet.

[Orion84]

Haha, no worries; there's nothing wrong with being socially inept, or insecure. That can even be cute, to a point.

It just sounds like you need more of a guiding hand than I'm typically expected to provide.

[Johnnayerishot]

No worries. Im definitely probably a weird person in the respect and most people wouldn’t even run into someone needing that much hand holding. I respect that you want to be a protector that’s respectable.

[Orion84]

Thanks, and I'm sure you'll find someone who can provide you with what you need. 🙂

[Johnnayerishot]

Thanks. Let’s hope so.

[AjayOnTheInternet]

You have the right idea with the, scared little kitten. But, think of it as more of a "Damsel in distress". Guys love to be your protector/provider, your go to for help. We love when a woman comes to us for help, makes us feel competent, needed, and appreciated. Even If it's little things, like opening a tight jar, or lifting a heavy object.

[Johnnayerishot]

Do guys like if they have to offer their help because she’s scared to ask for help?

[AjayOnTheInternet]

I would say he likes you to ask for his help. Example: You need a heavy box moved.
You: Hi (his name), I need to get this box moved over there, and it's too heavy for me to lift. Can I get you, and your muscles to move it?
Him: Oh yeah, of course I can.
*Moves the box*
Him: There you go.
You: Oh thank you so much, (his name).

Also, no need to be afraid to ask him for help, if he's not that busy. Most of the time guys will assume you actually needed help. If it's obviously light, he might catch on and think your doing it because you like having him help you. Either way he will feel appreciated, helpful, and overall good about himself for at least helping.

[Hdirtbb]

I can’t even relate. I like helping but not to the extent you’re describing where I’m like HELL YEAH ASK ME FOR HELPE EVERYONE. :3 honestly I can’t bring myself to go ask for help unless I REALLY need it and then I feel bad. I don’t wanna bother anyone People have things to do and I feel like I should be last in that list.

[AjayOnTheInternet]

@Hdirtbb Well if it did bother that person to help you real quick, they probably don't like you. If he likes you, he will for sure help you.
A lot of guys will help, just to be nice.

[Hdirtbb]

Ahh I hate to be rejected. I’m too passive some may say. I’m a bit weird.

[AjayOnTheInternet]

@Hdirtbb no one likes rejection, also being passive isn't bad. I like more passive girls, not aggressive. Men normally seek out women who tend to be more submissive.

[AjayOnTheInternet]

But everyone has their own personal preference.

[Anonymous]

I like quiet and submissive women but I don't like women because they are less than 1.61 meters tall.

[Johnnayerishot]

I’m sooo quiet and submissive. People tell me I’m quiet a lot and it surprises me. My brain is loud but I gues words never come out.

[Staximus]

I like women who stand up for themselves and aren't scared. I want one who is fearless and mean as a badger, but at the same time is street smart enough to not put herself in stupid dangerous situations.

[Summeroflove]

Two types of guys. Protectors and abusers. You need to look for the protector type

[BoopBoopBeep]

I tend to run from those personally but I'm sure a great many are into it.

[Avicenna]

No doubt there are some who are

[Johnnayerishot]

How can you tell if a man is into it?

[ChiTown33]

Not in the least. At 30+ that's generally an ACT anyways.😂

[DextroShade]

Men definitely prefer the former because the latter is more likely to nag him and be a headache.

[ProbablyClueless]

That wouldn't appeal to me, no.

[In_Trance]

Not at all