What is the definition of a "hot" girl and an "average" girl from a guy's perspective?

[experience]

What do guys mean when they say a girl is hot or average? I just want to see guy's perspective...

[sheperd]

Perceptions of attractiveness and attractiveness criteria can vary greatly from person to person, and there is no universally agreed-upon definition of a "hot" girl or an "average" girl from a guy's perspective. Attractiveness is subjective and influenced by cultural, societal, and personal factors. What one person finds attractive, another may not. I'll do my best to define it below :)

That said, some common stereotypes or generalizations that some individuals might use to describe a "hot" girl and an "average" girl could include:

Hot Girl:

Typically, some might associate physical features like an attractive face, a fit and toned body, and fashionable clothing with a "hot" girl.
Confidence and charisma may also be seen as attractive qualities.
It's important to emphasize that what is considered "hot" can vary greatly depending on personal preferences and cultural influences.

Average Girl:

An "average" girl, in some people's eyes, might be described as someone who doesn't necessarily possess striking physical features associated with traditional beauty standards.
However, it's crucial to remember that this description is highly subjective and doesn't accurately capture the diversity of people's appearances and personalities.
It's essential to recognize that these descriptions are based on stereotypes and can be problematic. They oversimplify and objectify individuals, reducing their worth to physical appearance and failing to consider the complexity of human beings.

It's also important to remember that attraction is highly individual and can't be generalized across all men or women. Different people are attracted to various qualities, both physical and personal, and what one person finds attractive may not align with someone else's preferences. It's best to approach attraction with an open mind and respect for each person's unique qualities and attributes.

[zeitgeist057]

Average:

Average girl is basic. Has a typical job, be it in retail, hospitality, or some other basic goods or services. Lives an average life, with 2 weeks paid vacation each year. Has a small group of friends who are also average and they get together to do basic things like hang out at each other's houses or go clubbing. Her physical features are average, she has a facial feature or two that are over/under-sized or just noticeably asymmetrical. Body weight/body fat % in the average range, 20%-30%. Probably plays a sport or two, and neither the best nor worst at it.

Hot:

Hot girl stands out, and probably in more than one category. Some girls are superficially hot, they put a lot into their looks. But on getting to know them, there is nothing behind the beautiful façade, or even worse, they are stupid and/or unkind. But a truly hot girl is kind and popular because of it. She knows and is known by many people, and is confident to speak to new people and engage them. She knows how to set boundaries assertively rather than by hiding or ignoring people. She has some passion, it might be a sport or some other hobby, but whatever it is, she puts in the time and effort to excel. Her face is almost perfectly symmetrical, and if any features are larger/smaller than average, it is in a flattering way that only makes her more striking (in the photo example, observe the fuller-than-average lips of the Rozmajl sisters). She might hold an average job, but will be one of the best at it. More likely, she has chosen something more eclectic and individual to her passions to pursue for employment or education. Maybe she makes her own art or teaches a skill she developed.

[BlackBeauty90]

You just posted a picture of a bunch of sluts as "hot"

[catarecute]

that girl from the first picture could look like that in one day. and those girls that your say are hot dont have a basic job because they dont look old enough to work.

[Jamie05rhs]

The girl in pink is not hot; she is average.

[Meropatrick]

@BlackBeauty90 what makes u assume they r sluts?

[BlackBeauty90]

@Meropatrick Style of dress, & the way they're poising that they're cheap is obvious as the sun in the sky.

[catarecute]

@BlackBeauty90 they all look about 14 why are you even debating this all of you its sick they r kids.
as well as noone is average we are creating perfect in gods image.

[BlackBeauty90]

@catarecute If they're 14 that's even more disgusting that they're dressing & poising like prostitutes.

[catarecute]

@BlackBeauty90 they look like theyre are dressed for some birthday party or something. whats most disgusting is those pervs on here commenting on their looks.

[BlackBeauty90]

@catarecute If that's a 14 year old's outfit for a birthday party you need your head examined.

[zeitgeist057]

They are sisters, aged 18-25. The oldest is a model, net worth approximately $1M. Not doing too bad with her job. Modeling, which is typically done professionally by people who are perceived to be physically attractive. She has been in a relationship with her boyfriend since 2015.

The above are verifiable facts rather than jealous denigration. It's sad the amount of hate and jealousy some women show toward people they know nothing about.

[BlackBeauty90]

@zeitgeist057 - hate & jealousy? ROFL. I'd rather be shot than dress like a tramp. And I made 2.5 million before COVID, she's a nobody with a no talent body

[BlackBeauty90]

@zeitgeist057 - not to mention I'm quite sure you know who Naomi Campbell is sweetie. 2nd cousin. So bring some women with talent when you want to whimper like a dog depending sluts pretending to be models. Real models don't poise like whores.

[turnpost]

There all hot even the girl with the face

[realeyeofthetiger]

horrible explanation

[catarecute]

its not jalousy i genuenly felt though they were kids at first, now i looked at the picture they look like adults. i definetly feel insulted by your comment because i identify more with that "basic girl from the top than with those girls" women are more insulted by mens comments than jalous of other women. i see myself as better looking than all those women, i also done modelling and only yesterday i was told my a proffesional photograher in paris that i could be a good model. i have never had plastic surgery and those girls on the pictures all have fake lips and noses if you look closely. now seriously men need to stop talking about women like tshirts and comparing our shapes prices and colors.

[zeitgeist057]

@catarecute I'm sorry you took it personally; it was not meant as a personal attack, and there is nothing wrong with being average. By definition of the word, most people are average. There is nothing wrong with most people, it's not an insult for someone to be average.

I find your accusation of "talking about women like tshirts" to be unfounded, at least as it relates to my answer. Are tshirts talked about with words like: "kind, confident, engaging, assertive, passionate, eclectic"? (All words I used in my answer to describe a 'hot girl') My point is I talk about personality, not just physical features, though I do include physical as well, that is ironically the thing the WOMEN on this thread seem to be more focused on, not me. For the women, it was all about judging the one picture (physical presentation) and calling them underage jobless sluts. It's time for women to stop denigrating each other and to realize cutting others down doesn't lift you up.

[zeitgeist057]

@catarecute I really am sorry you felt insulted. I want to add that my "average girl" description was not meant to be insulting in any way. I probably shouldn't have used the word "basic", which has come into use a la "basic bitch" as an insult. The picture I used and the description I wrote is of a woman who has value, she has a life with her friends and family, she has feelings and depth to her. The point I was trying to make is that some people have extra drive or effort that gives them results above the rest.

[catarecute]

all this is your opinion and perception. its not fact. i think that top girl is more respectful as she works, she hasn't had plastic surgery and she isn't using her body to make money. we all have different views of high value. i think that top girl has high value personally.

[turnpost]

@catarecute Totally agree

[MrOracle]

First, it needs to be understood that "hot" largely refers to a woman's body, not necessarily her face or facial beauty. Second, "hot" means "physically attractive in an overtly sexual way", and generally references a body shape or features that men (and women too) find sexually attractive.

Typically - though this can vary depending on individual men - this means a woman who is slender, has a defined waist-line, has prominent or shapely boobs, relatively pronounced hips, and a round booty. More or less an hourglass figure - though a woman with less pronounced curves but a nice shape (often an athlete, gymnast, dancer, etc.) will still be widely considered to be hot.

[Anonymous]

All guys definition of hot girl and average girl varies. While one guy might find someone hit, another guy might find her average or even ugly

[4ngelic]

probably the same as it would be from a girl's perspective. dont think your gender changes how attractive you see a face

[OfMiceandMen]

Hot means she's stunning to look at, but, could easily fail the brains test. So in the end should could be considered average once you take into account her ability to converse, etc.

Average to me, suggests she's good looking and if she actually has a brain, becomes hot in the end.

So it can go either way. You can have high hopes for the hot woman, but be totally turned off after speaking with her, or you can see the beauty in the average looking girl and then talk to her and know she's got beauty and some brain matter to boot.

I guess the key is, decent looking and has some brains at the same time.

[TipsyFr]

I guess a hot girl is when you wear clothes that make you look hot, you also have some, most or all the physical traits I find attractive. There’s no personality involved in hot you can be hot but I’m not interested in you because I don’t like you as a person. In contrast an average girl is to broad of a statement to define, personality could be a defining factor, physical traits or maybe just the way you dress. If someone calls you average I wouldn’t put too much thought into it. Their loss 👍

[Fireguy17]

Not calling girls or women cars, but just for the analogy.
A hot girl is like a show car at a car show.
They look really nice, are a lot of work to maintain and that is about it.
Rarely do they run well or perform very well, their job is to just sit there and look nice.
An average girl is like a nice classic car that has been restored or modified but still a driver, runs and handles great, one that you can go out and drive everyday and enjoy it.
You can take it anywhere and you aren't afraid to get it dirty.

[Meropatrick]

Thats unfair. Some hot girls can be smart and talented too

[Fireguy17]

@Meropatrick I didn't say they were all just show and no go.

[DarkWinterNights]

It’s kind of complicated, but there is a logic to it. The general gist is hot girls are sexy. And guys will talk a lot about them or have sex with them. But just being hot doesn’t mean they’re relationship material.
Think about what is referred to as the “friend zone” for women. The male equivalent is the “sex zone”. There are very attractive women that men will absolutely have sex with, but never commit to for various reasons.
Average girls aren’t a bad thing and it doesn’t mean they're unattractive. Women hear average and think of it as an insult. But most women by definition, are average. It all depends on how a woman carries herself and her personality.
For example: there is a girl I recently noticed who has been flirting with me for awhile but I was kind of oblivious to. Physically and objectively, you could say she’s a 7/10. But she’s kind hearted, has a bubbly personality. Always happy to see me and literally makes my day when I see her. To me she’s a 10/10 now.

[Meropatrick]

A hot girl is that one girl that takes your breath away when you see her. She looks like a model she enters the room and everyone notices her or try to avoid looking at her because they want to act normal around her. An average girl is a plain jane. She isn't ugly but also she doesn't have the wow factor the hot girl has. She isn't the one everyone in the room notice when she enters or disturb the energy in the room like the hot girl. An average girl is easy on the eye but also forgettable. The hot girl u will remember her even after decades

[loveslongnails]

Each guy will have a different hot button. For some, a) it's more in the face as long as the body is good. For some, it's b) much more in the body so long as the face is good. For some, it's c) got to be both.

All I can tell you is my definition. From a strictly from a physical/visual standpoint, a hot girl can be either a or b, but one of those things has to stop me dead in my tracks! A hot girl is like an explosion, and average girl (looks wise) can still be attractive, but she'll grow on me as I get to know her. If we really connect, she'll become hot to me!

[HaveNoName]

There is no definition by traits because everybody has different perspective.

Hot is a person who you look at and rhe only thing that comes to mind is that you wish you were making out with her, and you have the biggest fucking envy for the guy she is with.

Average is when you speak to her and after 5 mins, she is wiped off from your memory.

Mind you, "Beautiful", "Pretty" and "Cute" are other classifications that are exclusive from the two you brought up.

"Attractive" however may encompass more than one of all.

[BadApple69]

First off there is nothing wrong with average. You can take that average girl do a little make up and she can become that hot girl. The same goes for that hot girl, no make up and dress her down and she could become average. Average or hot isn’t only about make up it’s also about clothes, and personality too.
Don’t get hung up on titles. “Hot girls” can catch our eye but not always our hearts.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Hot =
1. Cute af face and thick long hair.
2. Hourglass shape with huge perky boobs and a small butt.
3. Not anorexic looking, but also not overweight, just enough fat to hide the bone and muscle definition.
4. Feminine voice, but "tomboy" brain.
5. Hyper af.

[zato1abuser]

A hot girl is one that I personally find extremely attractive, both her looks and personality. An average girl is every other girl that isn't particularly bad looking. I think, that most women are attractive, but whether you find someone "hot" or not, is subjective.

[RingOfFire]

I am often not attracted to women who are considered by many to be "hot." There are few if any celebrities, for example, that I am attracted to. Most of the ones that are considered "hot" look exactly alike to me. Not interesting. I find that most of the women I have been most attracted to have something unusual about their looks that differs from the what seems to be the standard definition of hot.

[Guido]

A lot of it is in how she presents herself. You can take an average girl and make her hot just by changing her appearance with hair, make up and clothes. A hot girl can also become average by removing the same items. Put her in around home clothes, messy hair and no make up and people will not think she is hot.

There is the very odd exception where and extremely beautiful woman looks good in anything but that is a very rare occurrence.

[Kaamraj]

Being hot or not is purely physical. No man has ever been sexually aroused by a woman's degree. Factors such as age, weight, facial symmetry, bust size, hip to waist ratio, etc and more subjective factors are included.

[Sarahr123]

That’s subjective and completely depends on whom you ask. Everyone doesn’t have the same taste.

[turnpost]

For guys this true ish. Mostly skinny girls probably be slightly better off. Lighter skin probably be better off.

For girls its mostly size, but I saw a couple saying to tall is annoyig for spontanoues kiss.

[Sonorous]

It's simple. Anybody who is hot will consistently rank higher than a 5/10 in looks on the 1-10 looks scale. And anyone who is average will consistently rank around a 5 in the 1-10 looks scale.

[Sonorous]

For instance, let's consider a scenario where one woman is rated an 8 out of 10 in terms of facial attractiveness, which is often considered "model-worthy." However, she may also be significantly overweight, which can noticeably lower her overall attractiveness in the eyes of some. Consequently, a man might view someone who is less facially attractive than the 8/10 woman to be hotter since she has a decent enough face & a better/healthier body.

[inhua]

a hot girl would be someone known mostly for her beauty

an average girl is known for everything else besides beauty (beauty can be still included but not the main known factor)

[BoopBoopBeep]

Same ist, the hot girl just has more of it. Personality, looks, life skill proficiency, how fit she is. If you're a C student you're average if you are an A student you're hot.

[Date_a_Snob]

the definition varies between cultures, countries and even religions

Im short, blonde and busty and get hit on often.

[strateguy632]

that is hot, i agree.

[Pacquet]

On my way

[Mybeachlife8888]

I usually don’t consider short girls as hot. Not saying you’re not hot, but usually in my opinion hot girls are a little taller. And what’s your definition of busty? I feel like a lot of women on here say busty when they have boobs but having huge boobs also does not make you hot. If you said perky, that at least sounds hotter to me…. But again it’s just my opinion

[Jamie05rhs]

@Pacquet lmao

[artgorgeous]

She may look hot but average in bed, or she may look average but hot in bed. When they say hot by her looks it usually means that boner is inevitable.

[Anonymous]

First of all every individual is different, i can't tell what other men think about hot women or average women. Personally i like hot women, but i will ran after one girl who gives me emotional peace, who's beauty feels my heart not my p*n*s.

By definition there are no average girls exist in my opinion, Every girls are special.

Again i tell you the definitions are highly depends on the observer. The question has not straightforward answer.

[jshm2]

It's subjective.

For some guys it's her wardrobe, for others it's her looks, for others it's her figure.

[Frank62]

Well, a hot girl to me is a gal that is very attractive, easily able to talk to, and dresses nice, but not overly dressed up. Too much makeup or apparel is a huge turnoff, in my opinion

[Lionman95]

To me a girl is either attractive or not, I don´t have a definition for what´s average.

[CuriousMufuxka]

A hot girl is rich and unapproachable. She's surrounded by flies considered people. An "average" girl is worse. She goes along with the norm but still tries to follow whatever the hot girl is up to. Oh wait, did you mean looks?

[ProbablyClueless]

Just a combination of personality and physical attractiveness. A gorgeous knock out can be average if her personality sucks.

[LiamJHayden]

I think it depends upon the guy. To me the sweet average Plain Jane is hot, certainly hotter in my eyes than a plastic, cookie-cutter wannabe Instagram star.

[Anonymous]

Hot girl for me would be Salma Hayek when she was in the movie, From Dusk Till Dawn. Average girl would be like Drew Barrymore.

[turnpost]

Men we should show pics of girls we think are hot describing there beauty doesn't do it justice.

[Jamie05rhs]

It's the difference between enjoying looking at them vs. just tolerating looking at them. (But it's not binary; it's a sliding scale.)

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Hot girl is beautiful from head to toe.

Average girl doesn't stand out from the rest in terms of physical beauty.

[turnpost]

Define your version hot.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@turnpost:

[turnpost]

Yup thats hot

[turnpost]

how did you add pic?

[turnpost]

www.google.com/search

[turnpost]

www.google.com/search

[turnpost]

I think both of these girls are super stupid hot. But they have a grace and narrative about them. What do you think?

[Rich371ca]

I don’t think there is much difference between an hot girl and average maybe the hot girl has more confidence

[Massageman]

Jenna Fratello from CNN is an example of average? sigh

[Anonymous]

It changes a lot for me but the things I always like is a resting bitch face and if she commits to the bit as much as I do. If she’s kind of cornball and/or a dork with tatts I’m sold.

[FYI345]

Hot = I want to rip your clothes off and pound your brains out

[Sasha0426]

Hot girl: men who respect
Average girl: men who would bully

[In_Trance]

Simple

[Ava1993]

Not a guy but I’m married to a woman For me if she pretty, smart and Kindness. To me she got have more then physical beauty to be hot.

[Anonymous]

cute girls - one thats submissive, nice and kind. one that you could take home with parents


Hot girls - big curves, nice body

[krin_m]

A woman who is smart, funny, articulate and confident is always hot!

[BLP11520]

It depends on the guy. Who I perceive as hot could be average to another guy

[Anonymous]

Im thinking the stereotypical “fit” body with a pretty face.

[Cheerfull009]

Every guy has Thermameter, he can check the hotness of the girl

[Anonymous]

Hot women have boobs and butt, average women don't

[he-takes-a-part]

Will term you hot only if you Suck my dick

[shades777]

pretty clear cut

[Anonymous]

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