I need to understand my male friend?

[FaithLeon]

Our friendship started out nice and smooth, i even began thinking he had some sort of feelings for me. Time flew and all of a sudden he changed, he started by getting angry at everything that i do, calling my parents his inlaws, saying how i refused to be his girlfriend (he never asked me out!). He did something one time, (using his fingers to rub the middle of my palm) then he asked me if i knew what it meant, and i said no. I later asked another male friend of mine and he said it meant the person was sexually attracted to me) which i take to mean he wanted to have sex with me. The problem now is that i dont want sex, i have a huge crush on him but i can't tell him because i dont know how he would respond especially if he doesn't feel the same way. I need to know if he feels the same way about me but the signs he gives out are very confusing and i need help URGENTLY!!!

[_Maya_]

So he gives you a sign that he wants to have sex by rubbing your palm (never heard of that) and you aren't sure if he likes you? Am I understanding this right? Well sure he might be using you for sex but I don't get that impression from the other things you said. Calling your parents in-laws is super weird if you are dating let alone friends. I have no clue what this dude is up to or how he feels. So you are gonna need to talk to him or ask him out because his signals are messed up.

[KrakenAttackin]

Slow down... Why don't you just ask him out? Or say, "why don't you ask me out"? Make it clear it's a "date", not just "friends hanging out". I am willing to bet your situation will improve rapidly.

[Billlewis]

So, you have a crush on him but you don't want to have sex with him? Okay...

[FaithLeon]

I would if i was sure of his feelings for me. i dont want to be his slampiece

[Billlewis]

I think you should have an in depth discussion with him about this, and see what his perspective is.

[KrakenAttackin]

"Spam piece", I have to remember that. And no you don't want to be a slam piece. You are both attracted to each other but you are both to cowardly to ask the other one out...

Personal growth and obtaining life goals only comes when we PUSH OUR COMFORT ZONES. As I said above, say to him "why don't you ask me out on a date"? He immediately will. Push a little harder and set a time/location. Dress and act like it's a real date, expect him to do the same.

I also suggest you two go somewhere you haven't been to before to reinforce this is a "date".

God hates a coward. Your move.

[spartan55]

What? You really can't see that he is into you? Ugh...🙄

[Iron_Man]

You’re gonna have to be open with this guy and tell him the truth that you have a crush on him

[FaithLeon]

I am worried that if i do it might ruin our friendship if it turns out that he does like me in that way.

[Iron_Man]

You could have both

[boobliker]

tell him how you feel and that we never were lovers just friends...

[Imsmurter1]

He sounds possessive doesn’t seem healthy

[Cheerfull009]

Why you are so upset just quit him, go to other