Why does a girl always attract shy guys? Which qualities make her particularly appealing to those men?

[brooker]

[Rei13]

I wouldn’t say always. I can be extremely shy whenever it comes to people I don’t know and am probably the shyest most outgoing person you will ever meet (quiet until I know you/am comfortable, then it switches to extremely outgoing 😅). While I do attract other shy people, I also attract people who are outgoing from the get go. I think with shy guys your energy matches theirs where with outgoing you compliment each other being opposites

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

For me it’s opposite I attract dominant men.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Socially I mean.

[rupam_das]

Because shy guys share more feelings than normal guys, Normal guys do not share that much feeling rather they express themselves cool & smart to womean whereas shy guys cannot able to express themselves thats why they are trying to hide their feelings because of their shyness, once they find their favourite girl they share all those feelings, and thats why women only able to see them.

[Still-alive]

Coming from a guy who used to always be shy the more extroverted women were particularly attractive because we feel more comfortable around you and like we can be more like ourselves with you. At least in my experience. You should take it as a compliment

[tischro]

If a girl consistently attracts shy guys, it could be due to a variety of factors that resonate with qualities that shy individuals find appealing. Shy people often feel more comfortable around those who exude warmth, understanding, and a non-judgmental attitude. They are more likely to be drawn to individuals who provide a sense of safety and acceptance, where they feel they can be themselves without the fear of being criticized or rejected.

Another aspect could be the girl's approachability. Shy guys may find it easier to connect with someone who is open, has a friendly demeanor, and shows genuine interest in others. Some women have a nurturing quality that can be very attractive to men who are more reserved, as it suggests a level of emotional support and understanding that they might crave.

Furthermore, a less "intimidating" personality could be a draw. Women who are extremely outgoing, assertive, or have a strong social presence may seem unapproachable to shy men. In contrast, a woman who is more reserved or gentle in her demeanor can appear more accessible, and thus more attractive to shy individuals.

[blunty]

A girl might seem to always attract shy guys due to various qualities and dynamics at play. Shy men, who may be reticent about approaching women they're interested in, might find certain women more approachable due to their nurturing, empathetic, or non-threatening demeanor. If a woman exudes a sense of understanding, patience, or warmth, it can create a safe space for shy individuals to come out of their shells. Furthermore, if a girl is a good listener and tends to be more subtle in her communication style, shy guys might feel more comfortable and less judged in her presence. Additionally, women who aren't overly assertive or dominant can be perceived as less intimidating, making it easier for reserved men to connect with them. Essentially, qualities of gentleness, empathy, and patience can make a woman particularly appealing to shy guys.

[EricSummer]

She probably seems approachable and nice. Likely she smiles a lot when talking. She appears calm rather than quirky.

Potentially, she lets down her defenses when guys seem harmless.

[lightbulb27]

so only shy guys approach her?

She's confident and non threatening emtionally... possibly. like less emotionally intense.

[HiveBee]

There is no difference. If a shy guy likes you some hot cool popular guy does too.

[sheikalana]

Maybe she’s the opposite of them and that’s what attracts them.

[chicosuave]

so what if they are shy? everyone is shy at first. They will eventually open up

[Surely]

Being open, friendly, including them in a conversation, smiling and being bubbly.
Thereby making shy people feel like they’re important.

[Engin12]

I think girls are shy and defensive mostly. Men can be shy if they fear of being rejected. In that case she can give us confidence with smile being talkative and open to date.

[DiegoO]

No idea. I hope you are not confusing shyness with introversion—two different things.

[Sunnybeach123]

Maybe those guys feel they can trust you with their feelings? Do you like shy guys?

[Rich371ca]

Women that usually attract shy guys are women that have some traits that they see from their mothers

[Shy_Steve]

Usually it starts off with just her looks and her Personality.

[KrakenAttackin]

You must seem approachable. The loud, obnoxious, masculine women are not approachable.

[DreamLife7]

Maybe he just doesn't like you lol. Has that ever occurred to you?

[CuriousMufuxka]

It's not such her qualities as such the guy is shy. There lies a hint of desperation.

[Anonymous]

If we’re talking cliches then the girl’s probably an extrovert, talkative, yada yada

[Sabretooth]

Attacking shy guys is a ricochet shot. They tend to be the most loyal and real.

[joehypo1]

Dennis rader was a shy guy

[WhitneySnow]

She’s probably shy too