Why does this boy keep making this sexual hand gesture to me? How does he think I feel about it?

[Anonymous]

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We literally just started working together. I dont understand him. He is a big goof ball.. but I’m still very new. Wth

[Mangospacho]

Assuming he means what I think he means by sticking his index finger inside his own hand, do a gesture back but use your pinky finger instead - that’ll send a message about your feelings about him.

[Asker]

What does that signify?

[Asker]

“In China, sticking the pinkie at someone is also a rude gesture; it's a gesture of belittling the other party, indicating the other party as useless or if it's a guy, the gesture is also used to belittle he's manhood.”

Lol… so by using my pinky with the same gesture, I’m belittling his manhood, hahaha

[Mangospacho]

Well, you’d just be showing he’s probably not packing much down there. You could also make the gesture of taking your finger and breaking it off.

[Mangospacho]

Yeah, it doesn’t sound like he’s sophisticated enough to know Chinese customs…. he’ll just assume everything symbolizes sexual organs anyway.

[Asker]

Lmao I’ll pretend break my finger with sound effects bahaha

[Anonymous]

You know what he wants, if it's too annoying you can warn him that you will report him

[Asker]

Why is he so stupid though

[Opinion Owner]

Well some people are not just raised right

[vj0090]

If u r really 45... its bit shocking to me if u don't understand the meaning of that gesture..

[Asker]

I already mentioned in my comment that I’m aware that it’s a “sexual” hand gesture. Nothing in my question asked what it stood for.

[Anonymous]

That is sexual harassment. Report him.

[Asker]

Considering the petty girl drama I’m dealing with currently, he doesn’t bother me.. as long as he doesn’t touch me

[Asker]

We just had a sexual harassment class too. I wander why he feels so comfortable around me to risk his job

[Asker]

But why? Why does he do it…

[Anonymous]

He wants to have sex with you.

[Asker]

DUH!