Is it normal if my man asks me to not shower/wash myself for a few days because he enjoys the smell of my unwashed body?

[Anonymous]

Lmao this is so embarrassing to write, but apparently according to him, I smell/taste like a mixture of rotisserie chicken / cooked meat down there when I don’t wash myself…and he loves it. Is this normal?

Like I’m curious if all men feel this way because my ex wasn’t like this whatsoever.

[Truthatanycost]

His lust has overridden his common sense. I don't know where you're finding such people...

11 Gross Things That Happen When You Don't Shower:

https://www.bustle.com/wellness/gross-things-that-happen-when-you-dont-shower

Once you get to day three or four post-shower...

Just a few from the long list are skin irritation from the buildup of dead skin cells. Bacterial or fungal overgrowth, and infection. The increased bacteria and germs on your skin can get into your eyes, mouth or nose causing illness. Brown patches on the skin that arise when oils, dirt, and sweat accumulate.

[teamvic]

no thats definitely not a normal thing haha. it seems like it could be some sort of fetish honestly. i know of some women who like the smell of a guy when he's sweating like crazy. something about " its the smell of a hard working man". weird to me but is definitely a thing. your boyfriend has some sort of fetish about it

but no i wouldn't go as far as saying its a normal thing. I've never heard of guys being into that

[Asker]

I know right! So not normal. But then again, a lot of fetishes aren’t normal, which you may be right…it might be a fetish. But it’s a very unhealthy fetish because he wants me to be unhygienic for his own sexual desires

[teamvic]

ask the mu fucka if its a fetish or something😂

you're right a lot of fetishes aren't but this one effects you a lot cause you can't take showers in order for it to be fulfilled🤔😂 i dont know what you're plan for that is but good fuckin luck😂

[teamvic]

your

[Asker]

Honestly I think im going to just end things with him. It’s not like we were already too deep-in anyways…we’ve been together for only around 8 months.

I date to marry…and so there’s no way im going to have kids/form a family with this man who has such a disgusting and selfish behavior.

[teamvic]

well if you're truly dating to marry then yeah that probably ain't gonna work out but i dont know if id go as far as to call it "selfish"🤔 it is weird but people can't really control what they find attractive and a turn on haha even if it is the bullshit. im not saying you're the asshole either for trying to leave him because as i said if thats the case with the date to marry then yeah it won't work. but i think its just a case of you two being incompatible 🤔
which happens haha it is what it is

[BrightBubblyKat]

That’s pretty gross. You poor thing. When I was your age, a guy friend of mine requested to buy my dirty underwear. Also, another guy asked me on a date, in front of little kids, if I liked my eggs fertilised.

[Twincapersredmomma]

Normal doesn’t exist when it comes to attraction

consenting adults can do whatever in my book but if you’re not comfortable then tell him

[Anonymous]

Not normal if he forces you to
But a request is of course not normal, there are certain things that turn people on that would be weird for others
Even the ones saying it's gross would have grosser some fantasy
Personally I really love the smell of her used clothes and natural body odour

[4ngelic]

i think for most guys that would be a good way to repel them from ever having sex with you... not the other way around

[Anonymous]

[Billlewis]

I feel the same way when I'm going to provide oral service for a woman.

[molonski2]

No NO and No , far from normal , and not remotely healthy , a very strange individual.

[cnj421]

He apparently has a kink 😂 if you’re fine with it then cool. If not, maybe he’s not for you.

[Starrrboy]

Dude is an animal lol... it's definitely not normal and not feasible.. not showering? Really? Lol

[Anonymous]

I don't think a few days is entirely normal. I do like my wife to go 12 to 24 hours without showering before sex and giving her oral. Her natural scent at that point is very sexy to me and she tastes good as well.

[Anonymous]

He has some serious issues. He needs help.

[Asker]

Oh jeez. I guess I may have to end things with him…I can’t deal with this kind of crap. Relationships are already super stressful on their own…I can’t afford to deal with this behavior of his

[TiaNour]

Pretty weird

[Asker]

Exactly

[SaltwaterGirl]

Yuck that's disgusting

[Emanon25]

Normal for stinky people 😂

[balyai]

That's disgusting

[Anonymous]

Not normal.