Why would he block me on Spotify damn?

[Anonymous]

he said he's dealing with mental health issues and not ready for a relationship while he's dealing w it. Still has me on insta but blocked me on SPOTIFY WTF

[pianogirlmeow]

Maybe some songs remind him of you and he wants to move on? I don't know, but you could just ask, if he still has you on insta.

[Asker]

I think he shows girls his play lists. And I am the only one following him he's only following me so he had to block me so that its not like who is this girl following you. he's 8 years older than me too. so either if he's trynna get with another young girl she's going to be like wtf is ur type just younger girls. or he's getting w a girl his age who's going to be like uncomfy.

[pianogirlmeow]

Ohhh, i thought he was following other girls too. Yeah that’s definitely the reason.

[Asker]

but he had other girls like his playlist i could see those. he could've removed them but i saw all the 4 girls lol. I said nothing i was shhh shh. why u gotta block me damn

[Simslover92]

That's possible to block someone on Spotify?

[Anonymous]

I didn't know that was possible on Spotify.

[Asker]

girl me too but I had all his Spotify playlists he sent me on my profile and I was following him. He was following me. I was the only person he was following. We had a shared one too that I made and he unliked couple days before. And then I noticed all his playlists I couldn't access them anymore weird. Had my friend look up his username and it exists but I can't look it up. Like wtf why would u block me on SPOTIFY.

[Asker]

I feel like it was bc I was following him and was the only one. so if he had another girl who saw that then it's a big red flag. But he had like 5 girls before who already liked his playlist. I saw all the names. So he didn't block them. Like why u block me damn.

[spartan55]

Who is he?

[Asker]

guy I was talking to for 3 months

[spartan55]

Okay... so what?

[Asker]

why he block me on SPOTIFY? like wtf. like instagram ok. I get it. but he didn't even block me on insta. he blocked me on SPOTIFY. why would he do that? He's prob talking to someone else isn't he

[spartan55]

Why are you defaulting to that? Maybe you pissed him off.

[Asker]

I lit did not. He said he has depression and he doesn't want to be in a relationship when he isn't feeling well.

[Asker]

and I told him dont go through it alone and get help if he needs it/ that im here for him. He just hearted my last message and now we are strangers :(

[spartan55]

Sounds like more drama than it's worth. The 'talking stage' is stupid. You could had this guy figured out in 1-2 dates.

[Asker]

I know im blocked tho now on SPOTIFY. so I think he just doesn't want me

[Asker]

I would've waited till he was better if he wanted

[spartan55]

Okay, smell ya later then! You are far too young to be wasting your time on a clown like that. Free advice you can take or leave: don't do the 'talking stage' it's a waste of time.

[Asker]

ur right no more talking stages. we either meet regularly or we stop talking.

[spartan55]

I get the idea behind it and all that. But it never works. It ends up being a stall tactic. It's also usually done by text or DM which is the worst way to get to know someone.

[Asker]

im new to this. I've been with 6 diff guys since April. I'm so sad and tired. Only two did I meet up with. Rest were just failed talking stages but all were months long bc of long distance. It's crazy to hurt so much about someone you never even met. Ur right. No more talking stages. It's just pain for no reason. Talk to me for a week max.

[spartan55]

That's plenty of time. You need to have face to face time to know if you are compatible. I get called old everyday on here and that I don't understand the internet and social media. I just laugh because I've seen the dating scene pre and post digital. I've seen it change so many things.

[Asker]

oof ur right prob have a good perspective on what's wrong with dating now.