Ways to respond to guys hitting on me even though I dress extremely modestly and hide my hair?

[Anonymous]

Yes I even cover my hair and men at work think I’m a worker in. Brothel.

so I need help. I get asked out, hit on. Someone said “I love you”. I need help people. Seriously.
It’s hard to change my personality. I’m a nice soft person. I’m already quiet and shy so it’s not like I’m putting myself out there.
And men please behave thanks.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Reminders that you come to your job in order to perform tasks, not be flirted with on a constant basis. Being professional at work shows maturity, which is something most women probably would appreciate in a partner.

[Asker]

True you always respect men who never hit in your or try to get “friendly”

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Hopefully there are still a few left and the situation at your workplace changes.

[Asker]

thanks.

[TruthBeTold77]

Men literally hit on anything that moves with a vagina just tell them you're not interested.

[Asker]

How? I don’t want to offend anyone or cause any waves.

[TruthBeTold77]

Just tell them you're not interested in dating and would like it if all relationships remained professional.. but honestly if they keep harassing you ( as some may because some just won't take no as an answer) then don't be afraid to stand up for yourself, okay.

[Asker]

Thanks. I guess you’re right I have a right to get more serious if they can’t understand No. sometimes I forget that. Thanks.

[TruthBeTold77]

No problem. I understand I get the same at work to and I'm always covered up and in loose clothes, but for some reason as I said men just like to hit on everything with a vagina so it doesn't matter if we cover up they still try and bother. But never forget you have every right to set boundaries and if they don't listen then you have every right to stand up for yourself and be harsher.

[Anonymous]

Well some of us have the opposite problem so maybe you should count your blessings.

[Iron_Man]

If you don’t like them, ignore it

[In_Trance]

Positively or Negatively. Make a choice