Why do so many men pretend to be friends with a girl just cause they want a chance to be with her ? (Page 2)

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This has happened to me so many times, I’ve only had a handful of males who I’m friends with that don’t pull this sort of crap where I’ll think they are just wanting to be my friend but they actually just want to be in a relationship with me and it’s super frustrating especially when at the beginning I set a boundary and tell them I’m currently not looking for any type of romantic relationship with anyone because I’m not in the right place emotionally? And the second they start realizing I’m not reciprocating the romantic advances they say I’m “friend zoning” them and ghost me. I already struggle with low self esteem so when this type of thing happens to me constantly it just makes me feel like I’m not an interesting person that someone would care about outside of my appearance

AmeerX · Answer

It's not always like that. Sometimes people catch feelings along the way

skt19d · Answer

Well school us on how else to initiate the introduction conversation to take you out.

PeachesNCream98 · Answer

Because as men we see females as more than just friend. As men, wants to show women our physical and emotional passion.

Djaay · Answer

Bc women don't commit to relationships or marriage while they're taken him for a ride of his finance. Same thing women do to men... Pretend.

Anonymous · Answer

Well to be honest I do that too but it's not just pretend. I can be a pretty good friend as well. I'm currently kind of friends with someone who has "friendzoned me" recently. I'm hoping to get her to like me back. Wish me luck.

In_Trance · Answer

Men and women can never be friends

Shy_Steve · Answer

Because we usually don't get anything that a Guy Friend can't give us.

LeviXL · Answer

I do this a lot I can't bear to be around woman cos they are so boring, I just want to nail them

Anonymous · Answer

At last someone who really understood those creeps !

Anonymous · Answer

I would guess this happens but not sure how often.

Sharkstealth · Answer

If they are your friend how are they pretending?

Martyrdom28 · Answer

Gotta keep them close! Show your worth as a friend and what you can offer to them

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Because men don't need women as friends. We need one woman as a romantic partner. That's it.

jeffend888 · Answer

Good that you are learning this early in life.

Luopio27 · Answer

You got me. Its because I used to be and will may be a male bitch.

Raaj4you · Answer

Hahaha 😂🤣 Yes, I pretend to be friends just to get closer to the girls.

Lunatic1 · Answer

Most guys see it as the easiest way to get to in her life to try getting a relationship

Anonymous · Answer

Where does the "pretend" fall here? Even if you never make it that far, how would a friendship not be established anyway? Is the idea of searching for a life partner harmful to women?

SayGracePlease · Answer

Because they're desperate? I don't know but it makes me mad when they only pretend to be my friend

pethouse · Answer

They are trying to warm up to her so she can trust him?

dolemite58 · Answer

they don’t have the balls to be straight forward about it

azgınteke · Answer

They can't see that everything is about friendship...

Anonymous · Answer

Why shouldn't they? It's a common way of approaching a woman.

Anonymous · Answer

I think they're your friend you just take things the wrong way.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

Because it works.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I totally agree with you

boobliker · Answer

we all lie to get a mate!

LiamJHayden · Answer

Fear of rejection.

driven159 · Answer

Like everything else SEX

shades777 · Answer

fuck if i know, i don't pretend anything

Anonymous · Answer

Is this a serious question?

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Girls are also doing same to boys

jimmy2 · Answer

Put a knock on the belt

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

OH I'M 100 PERCENT GUILTY OF THIS

Anonymous · Answer

It can be used to boost s guys ego.

TallAnon · Answer

Because it works.

Sugarberry37 · Answer

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