9 moWell many reasons why a man would pretend to be friends with someone including girls. Number one is desperation for sex…
This is very different then a friendship where there is genuine romantic feelings of wanting something more. This is simply wanting to have girls around to be able to sleep with for their own gratification. Even if these men aren’t getting any, some are desperate enough to keep trying. Unfortunately, faking a friendship.
Another common reason if it isn’t for sex or in addition to sex. It can be for supply basically they’re being validated by keeping girls around them. Feeding their ego and being able to show off to others that “look at me I got all these girls around me” and there are women who do the same.
It can be in addition to as well but if it’s not for sexual reasons at all or for supply as in being seen with girls. The same reasons people fake any friendships. Number one, just cowards. They’re too scared to just tell you how they really feel around you. Wanting to get through you to get to someone else… Such as another girl maybe you’re friends with or something. For things if a girl has money or status beint around her to get favors pretty much. Using people as fake friends do.
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9 moBecause they want pussy... that's the blunt short answer.
The long answer tells you why they're too much of a pussy to just ask for pussy instead of pretending to be a friend. The long answer also delves into the fact that these women like the attention so much that they'll allow this unwarranted attention despite knowing full well why that guy is willing to be her emotional tampon and listen to all her stupid mother fucking problems.
Once again it's just another case of the male and female exchange of sexual desire (males) and attention seeking (females). Just take the short answer so I don't have to give you a bunch of my jaded reasons as to why this is.
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9 moThey have a fear of rejection and believe that if they can be accepted platonically then they can “work their way” to being accepted romantically, like working your way up to a promotion at a job. Obviously it’s not that simple, but men are very simple creatures and like simple solutions before complex ones.
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You don't need to have a "fear of rejection" to use that strategy to get women, you can simply hypothesize that your chances will be higher by becoming their friend first.
Why do so many women love to use these sleight-of-hand ways of describing things to make everyone look weak? - 8 mo
Saying you’re afraid as a motivation for manipulation makes you sound more appealing than just being greedy
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I don’t care
1.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Some guys don't want to be without you so they accept a friendship space in your life.
Friendship keeps you in their orbit and him in yours.
But watch for "cockblocking" bc the guy friends will get jealous and crazy about any sort of attention you show other guys.10 Reply
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9 moI would say sex is a lead motivator but it’s kind of a contradiction cause if he is “friend zoned” then perhaps that’s suddenly off the table.
I’ve never pretended to be friends with a girl , but not had many great friends that are women either , they generally tend to be great working colleagues for me. My answer to why would just be simply to benefit in all the ways that a friend of that girl might , so perhaps to open doors to friends of hers? … think of the male cheerleader strategy.. deviously good 😜00 Reply
Anonymous(45 Plus)9 moTo sleep w them. I won’t say all men do this, but there are a number of men who pretend to be a girl’s friend simply for that reason. But even then I think both are using each other. Male likes female. She doesn’t like him that way so she throws him in the friend zone but still extracts things from him. On the other hand he’s feigning to be her friend in hopes that maybe she will slip and fall on his d*ck one day. He’s thinking maybe she will see what a great man he is one day then she will go out w him. You know like a Hallmark movie. Only this Hallmark movie comes with 2 or more kids after her baby’s daddy plowed the nanny by the Christmas tree. Now after all these years she realizes what a good man her friend is. The end lol but yes that happens a lot. He may want a real relationship or just to smash that ass.
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u 9 moThe larger question is: why are some guys (and girls) dishonest in relationships? The answer is: it doesn’t matter why they are liars. You can’t understand them and you can’t change them; all you need to know is how to recognize them and how to run away from them.
10 Reply 4.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. In most cases, it's because they are idiots (or just incredibly naive and inexperienced) and hope that being around her more, and "being there" for her, will eventually convince her that he's a guy who is good enough to date (or have sex with). In practice, this happens less often than Hailey's Comet comes around.
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9 moSometimes it's because they're hoping that a deeper connection will develop. Other times, it's because the guy genuinely doesn't know what he wants and settles for a friendship because something is better than nothing.
Finally, you can never forget that sometimes things just change. The guy went into the friendship with genuine intentions and something about his life or the dynamic changed how he perceived the lady in question.
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9 moSome guys are being friendly for real, but the ones that are pretending are doing it to have sex with them
20 Reply If they’re not interested in friendship then there’s typically one other thing that would be a motive for them to continue being friendly, and that’s typically sex.
00 Reply33.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. To get laid... duh... no guy wants to be your friend.
10 ReplyI try to be friends with most everyone, see where things go. If things don't work out that's just the way that situation went.
Just keep trying to be happy and friendly.
Not sure if I answered your question or not.
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9 mosometimes you do that cause you're too cowardly to ask her out and risk getting rejected. so you still like her but you're in that weird phase where you think you can long term be ok with just being friends which you absolutely won't.
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9 moMaybe there hoping to get a foot in the door then use that to lead to more😉
20 Reply370 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Sometimes girls tell good jokes or have amusing outlooks on life. They can't do comedy well but some are pretty smart at observing the world in an amusing way
00 Reply713 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Yeah basically they hope to get into their pants , stupid concept 5 % chance.
10 Reply553 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. These replies from men are just gross bc if you sleep with me and don't want to be my friend, there will be worldly consequences
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Sure they're are tough guy sure there are I mean you can always cry rape if you like You motherfu ckers r known for that
7.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I will put this in the “things that never happen” file.
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8 moSometimes it’s just about enjoying the friendship, but yeah, other times guys might have extra intentions. It really depends on the person and the vibe!
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9 moBecause there hoping that if she starts to like him she will let him have sex with her & hopefully turn it into a longer relationship with him. Dennis
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9 moIt's obvious replication theory In other words to cum inside. Hey I'm just saying what everybody else is thinking
00 Reply821 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. This one I've never heard of. If im a friend i will be a friend until the end or you say good bye
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9 mobecause they want to have sex with them. Men don't have anything to gain from being friends with women, usually.
10 Reply920 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Usually it will be white knighting, in the hope of getting a crumb of coochie.
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9 moThey're secretly hoping to get a bit more than just friendship.
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9 moFor friendship and to know them..
Or even social capital10 ReplyI dont even bother, I already know not to be , friends, I dont want to be her , friend, tho id be friendly towards her.
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Because they may want to be more than friends with them
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9 moThat I'm open to something more doesn't mean I'm not okay with just being friends.
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Anonymous(36-45)9 moIf they are not attracted to a girl, then they are not pretending, they really can be her friends.
If they like a girl, they are usually friend-zoned.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)9 moFor the same reason that a lot of women pretend to be attracted to men. You're gender has your games, our gender has ours.
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Anonymous(25-29)9 moso they can eventually get into your pants.
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9 moBecause girls dont sleep with guys that really care about them, and are their friends.
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@qwerty2469 Gonna argue AGAINST that opinion qwerty. Girls do sleep with guys who are their friends and care about them. Means they trust that guy. Whereas some guy chasing after them for sex only is highly suspect... and may simply be a horndog.
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You can argue with a wall. Because you are stupid and wrong. I won't waste another second on it.
Anonymous(45 Plus)9 moPretend to be friends with a girl in what way?
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Asker9 moFor sex or trying date her
Opinion Owner9 moWhat if the person isn't pretending and really is friends with her but also loves her
Asker9 moIf he loved me he would respect my boundaries and wouldn’t keep asking would I have sex with
Asker9 moHim.
9 moThe answer is obvious. To get in the girls pants.
00 ReplyUsually they have other goals.
00 Reply355 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. How does someone pretend to be a friend?
00 Reply3.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. They think they will get in their pants.
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9 moHow can you tell they are pretending?
20 Reply they think that will help them get the pum pum
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9 moIt can give guys a lot of self confidence.
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9 moI am friends with women.
00 Reply 14.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Guys never want to be friends. Ever
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9 moIt's just a form of lead generation.
00 ReplyWell isn't it the obvious. To bone and groan
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9 moTo get p***y !!!
00 Reply they feel to insecure to be transparent
00 ReplyI DON'T pretend! I have no idea!
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Anonymous(25-29)9 moTo eventually date them and get laid
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9 mothey want to have sex with them
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9 moI never pretended.
10 Reply4.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Obvious answer
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9 moTo sleep with her
00 Reply Sex.
00 Reply1.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. To get laid
00 Reply464 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. To get a free sex.
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