I left him while he was smoking cr@k?

[Anonymous]

When my boyfriend feels sick, he smokes cr@k

The problem is , he gets paranoid toxic and even kinda scary when he smokes that shit

We had tons of conversations, about doctors or rehab or smth.

Im tired i can't take it anymore.

I always stayed by his side and waited until paranoia goes away

Today i waited and it didn't go away, i couldnt take it anymore i left, took my car and went home.

I want to understand if me leaving will somehow help him to realize he can't do this anymore or he will lose me and best solution is doctor?

He didn't want to hug me or kiss me while i was leaving, he had angry serious look on his face, was stiff when i bugged him.

I wanted to send him a message if he wants me to come over to make him company but i guess i better leave him with his thoughts? or should i ask and go visit him?

[boggboss]

Realisticly no people who are addicts don't think straight when it comes to their addiction u leaving will be replaced by him taking his drug sure he might feel bad later but as soon as his body hungers for it again those feelings of missing u will vanish

[Asker]

But after he takes it he always says he feels line shit... he regrets... he gets angry at himself for doing it etc
He even cried:i dunno what to do i dont want to continue like this
I say:... well... easy. a doctors... or private or public. or urgency. ill go with you.

[boggboss]

He might feel all these things but it dont matter because just with like missing you as soon as his body wants more of the drug all those feeling will vanish it doesn't seem like he has the willpower to resist or to start to fix the issue

[Asker]

How can he improve his willpower?

[boggboss]

Not really something u can do he has to want to do it

[Anonymous]

I don't understand women. They complain about men. There are plenty of good decent men with a job and respect for themselves. And then they choose to date degenerates who smoke crack and steal their money. It's not men that are the problem it's the men that you choose.

Enjoy your crackhead boyfriend until you're 30 and then you'll be saying "all men are trash" 😂 there's no saving you.

[Asker]

He is amazing
The only bad thing is drug addiction
He doesn't steal and never will he has awesome job and is very responsable
You won't understand, besises he does it for sickness

[Asker]

You see you are not smart enough and not even deep enough to understand the complexity of the situation but you think you are better than him
I bet you are typical "nice"guy who insults woman the moment he is rejected

[Opinion Owner]

I am smart enough to not smoke crack and ruin my life. I am married I don't need to ask a woman out.

Enjoy your loser boyfriend probably working at McDonald's.

[HelpfulWoman]

if he hasn't seen he needs to change already, take the hint.

[Asker]

He hates doing it but he is more scared of doctors and thinks he has some serious disease
He is so paranoid is crazy
If he would fix his puking problems he wouldn't even smoke it
He feels angry with himself after smoking it he says he feels lile shit for doing it But still won't go to the doctors

[Anonymous]

You can't save other people from themselves.

[Asker]

Why not
He says he wants to change
I wanna help

[Opinion Owner]

Because you are tired and you can't take it anymore.

[Asker]

Yes i can

[Opinion Owner]

I was quoting you, this is what you said.

[Asker]

I know
But still
I wanna help

[Opinion Owner]

It's your life, you are the one who must live with whatever the consequences of your choices are, for better or worse.

[Starrrboy]

It's always a good decision to dump stoners...

[Asker]

So he will never stop then?

[Starrrboy]

Who cares.. fukk him!

[Asker]

Well we are in love

[Starrrboy]

You're in love with a person like that? Okay nothing can help you, have fun lol

[Asker]

Its not what i came here to read so just pass

[Starrrboy]

Yeah pass that good shit 🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

Get away from him ASAP.

[Asker]

He said thank you for being by his side
He says he feels like shit when smokes it