Might see this person I know at a bar in another city and not sure about it?

[Anonymous]

i saw them there once before in the spring but they wouldn't even talk to me , i see them all the time during the summer in my hometown as we frequent the same watering hole downtown but never even talked to them when there in this other city for school/work.

there is a country bar downtown they like to go to , that is where i had seen them before and not sure what to expect if i were to see them there again. i feel like things could go multiple different ways and it does bother me the way they acted before

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was there and didn't see them at all, did see other people i knew from different places in that city

[spartan55]

Are you talking about one person?

[Asker]

sort of mostly but if i see her at that bar she will be with a group of people , there is a group of girls and some guy friends she hangs out with there , they go to that bar a lot but i don't know if there going this weekend when i saw her there on st patricks day she was with them , her girlfriend's actually seemed ok with me and wanted to meet me but she was totally distant

[spartan55]

I don't understand what you are asking. So you are trying to get with several women?

[Asker]

was never trying to get with her girlfriend's , had just seen some of them that night

the issue is with girl i know from hometown and how she might react if we run into each other in this other city at bars downtown when i'm there this weekend

[spartan55]

Why do you keep saying they?

[Asker]

meant if i see her she will be with a group of girls not just herself but the issue is with her personally not the other girls

she had lied to me a lot during summer of 2022 and things weren'tmuch better this summer either , not sure why she had an issue with me being in this other city and with me going to those bars as its a pretty common place for people to go

[spartan55]

Okay, were you in a relationship with her?

[Asker]

not exactly but we've know each other for a long time at that water hole in our home town , she can't really except me to only go there , the world is not that small , don't see why she'd find it so odd for me to go to another city for the weekend and go to different bars than normal , people do that all the time.

things between us were weird for various reasons the last 2 summer when she worked at that spot downtown and i'd see her there , i'd try and talk to her and create a genuine connection with her but she wasn't even being honest with me about basic things about herself and i'd never ever see her anywhere else dispite the fact we lived in the same area