My boyfriend is stressed and doesn't want to talk?

[Anonymous]

He has job problems and also hi work laptop is not working properly because his stupid friend did some shit

He is very stressed and angry

He doesn't want to see me, spend time with or talk to me. I wanted to bring hum food for work he refused

He says we will see each other but never says when

He said he wants space and have rest

What should i do?

Is it normal for a man to distance from girlfriend? We dont live together

[sheikalana]

Give him some space. Men need space when they're overwhelmed.

[Asker]

I dont understand this

[Still-alive]

^ Well then thats a big problem then lol

[sheikalana]

You have a lot to learn if you don't understand what giving space to someone means. Give him space to deal with his things don't be constantly bombarding with your relationship or asking for attention.

[boggboss]

So give him space guys sometimes like to left alone to sort their issues out

[Asker]

But what space? like stop calling him stop texting him what?
I dont understand

[boggboss]

How can u not understand what giving space is don't suffacte him stop trying to fix his issues speak to him but don't smother him

[CoolCatMar1]

Some men do that i never understood why

[Asker]

The more i ask and the more i offer help or solutions then more he gets angry

[CoolCatMar1]

Have you asked why

[Asker]

Says he needs space...
What space

[CoolCatMar1]

Yeah... He should actually like your attention if he is that pressed right now

[CoolCatMar1]

And need your company

[CoolCatMar1]

But i guess give him space

[Asker]

He says 4 times good night but keeps talking and talking
I dobt get it
Tell me to leave him alone
But then i 1 hours comes back and talks again wtf

[CoolCatMar1]

That's weird yeah

[Asker]

Refuses ny help all the time refuses see me

[Still-alive]

Just give him space. let him come to you

[Asker]

What is space in male vision?

[Still-alive]

Just text him good morning or good night or whatever then yeah just do your own thing until he feels ready to chat again.

[Asker]

He said tonight we won't be talking because he meets his friends
Should i send a good night?
I know he won't answer

[Still-alive]

Yeah a good night text should be fine

When he finally opens up. definitely listen to him. but maybe after he does you can tell him how this space made you feel too. its should be a time for you both to finally communicate things to each other. but until then give him the space

[Asker]

He keeps messaging me sometimes sfter saying by im tired i dont wanna talk
But keeps texting me
Even i say ok good night
He keeps sending me smth
Then asks for space
I dont get it
Says ok we will meet some day soon
I offered today , also to bring some food for him my mom did, he refused saying no thanks
doesn't make sense

[Still-alive]

I think its him venting a bit. i would just listen. don't offer advice or anything. just say you understand and stuff like that

[Asker]

Well i said
He acts like a brat
He is 43
Too old for acting this way
Im not saying no good night

[Still-alive]

uhhh well don't say that stuff. thats childish.

[Asker]

Say what?
I didn't text him since 15.00
He is childish not me

[Still-alive]

you said he acts like a brat and is too old to act how he's acting. and refusing to say good night. you are NOT helping. give him space. you got it? if you don't then break up because you don't get it.