
Would You Approach A Random Woman You Found Attractive Out In Public?


Why would I bother someone like that? They didn't invite me to talk. I'd prefer to stay a healthy distance away to allow her to feel safe, and keep my eyes pointed elsewhere. If necessary I'll just leave if I am able.
I don't know but as you can see there are men that do
Yes. I actually dislike them so much I try to do the exact opposite and make myself scarce.
Pick-up culture is garbage.
Pick up culture is a scam 😂😂 those pick up “gurus” with those fake videos of them approaching women made tons of money off desperate men
I think the problem is they skip to flirting and sending dirty messages before getting to know someone.
I adore my friendships. If things go further, great, but I'm not expecting it or even interested half the time.
If not, great, I now have a friend. Women aren't prizes, they're people with value and they've lived a life of their own.
They can be "prizes" later if both parties want that.
Everyone is unique so approaching everyone in one aggressive and particular way just creates uneasy feelings.
I never know who is scared of me, so I just give everyone a lot of breathing room.
No the problem was they were faking getting the girls numbers, they weren’t“picking” any girls up in the first place. Pick up culture is basically dead now tho, most people who want hookups use dating apps and state that clear in their bio
Hook-ups are also something I cannot understand.
I'm not comfortable even cuddling someone unless I trust or love them.
I mean I feel like I'm being a nuisance by even commenting on this, so I'm going to head on. Take care and stay safe and hopefully happy. 🥴
I only sometimes tell them that they may pet my dog if they want to if it seems like they desire to.
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I've done this a few times. I've told a few girls that I thought they were attractive.
Just a compliment, no strings attached to it. Something as simple as noticing them can turn someone's day around. Sometimes, I refer to their clothes, if they look really nice in their outfit.
No that’s not approaching, I’m talking about asking them out/for their number.
I've only ever done that a few times and I was 2 for 3. The 2 that successful tries was when I was at the pub with my friends and we were having a pretty good time. I'm the guy that makes his friends laugh in the group so I guess they were drawn to me a little. I've often set my guy friends up who tend be quieter. It puts a smile on my face when I can set them up with someone more so than myself.
sorry two successful tries...
No no dude, I said public space where people DONT go to meet. Like on the street, or in a store
Sorry, read that in the first place, didn't read your blurb again before answering this round. Then no, not in public places. I figure girls want to be left alone to their business while they are out and around.
I’m a very extroverted kind of person so yeah, but it’s equal opportunity too. I approach old people, couples, whatever. Not just randomly but it’s not hard to tell who is open to a conversation and who is not. Sometimes just saying something randomly nice to a total stranger can be a really powerful moment for them. A unexpected compliment or kind work is a gift. If she’s an attractive woman then all the better but I also wouldn’t approach a woman simply because she’s pretty unless she was projecting some indications she was open to being spoken to.
As far as your ‘pump & dump’ comment I don’t really understand the context so I can’t really comment.
Yeah I don't know how you’re confused 💀 oh wait you’re 50, approaching means talking to someone and asking them out/getting their number
I don’t think I’m confused at all but approaching someone is your actual question. Is it not?
Pump & dump, while vulgar is also quite clear in its meaning. Where do you think I am confused?
I would tell a man he was attractive if I seen him in the street i have told scafolders walking by them or police men and moterbikers they are so gorgeous according to me if they are good looking they deserve to know a don't care if it's police either awl tell them they are looking gorgeous if they are lockers am a free women single not shy so I may say and do what i like av never never been shy my family and friends have always loved that about me av told men in pubs they have nice asses wiles weve been standing at the bar a don't care or start a nice conversation a mean if anyone on the street is talking about stuff i will just wait for the right moment but in and start a convo with them nd get along
I said approach as in ask out
I've had two women downtown pass by and a few feet away one nearly shrieked to the other "damn cute", which was a bit more embarassing than it would have been at a pub. I've been talking to a woman there and we had like a long talk, long enough for even her friend leaving us behind alone. But right in the middle I remembered "wait, you have a crush already" and at the end when she hinted on me asking for her number (like quite persistently) I refused because of that. I didn't wanna give that up for some one-night thing. But this might be why I don't talk to any women there myself, because I wouldn't know what to say, I suck at that.
What…. do you approach random women on the street and in stores or not?
From the way you’re talking now there’s a 99.9% chance you will either get rejected or a fake number. As you should since you are being weird approaching random women.
At this point I don't know where the line between aproaching and harrassing is anymore...
It’s a very obvious line, unfortunately the harrasers approach the most for some weird reason
Guys can't even approach girls nowadays without being labeled as a creep. Why try?
And tbh, I don't even blame women for feeling that way either... it's weird
I have found a few women that were OK with me saying hello to them in public either at the grocery store or park sometimes you have things in common like walking your dogs, etc.
Thank you, it's disgusting and annoying. Also classless and predetorial
I don't have the confidence to do such a thing.
I wouldn't want to, even if I'm bisexual. Even if I didn't have a boyfriend, I can't go flirting with women without knowing if they'd even be interested. Getting to be a friend without romantic interest? Yeah!
Im not trying to get thrown into jail. Half kidding. No lady it won't happen. Society has feminized men too much. Be happy IF u even get to have kids at this point.
Uh oh here’s another bitter guy mad women don’t take harassment from men anymore
Where do you see that at? 🤡 descriptions says quite the opposite how dumb could you be lmaoo
I wish guys would leave me alone in public, as you know y’all are very desperate and annoying. Get a clue.
If I liked her that much I will give her a hint.
I have with mostly negative results.
i don't prefer that
but I never go back
No obviously not. I am a short man anyway
Pump and dump
Stop harassing women
It's joke
U said it n I just repeat it
Extremely unlikely
Yes of course
You say of course like that’s the norm. It isn’t
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