Would you date a friendly, outgoing girl who strikes up conversation with random people?

[Anonymous]

[randomusername321]

Love the bubbly outgoing types. As long as those random conversations doesn't include flirting, sure. If she flirts with, flirts back, or doesn't stop a guy from flirting with her and continues the conversation despite that, I'm breaking up with her

[randomusername321]

Don't*

[ohshee]

Yes I would I love strangers I love random people because they're real at that moment we have nothing to hide nothing to lie about nothing to gain or lose they are just themselves and I think that's fun

[The_Maphio]

That would be the opposite of me, which in turn would end up drawing me into chats with random people, which I'd end up hating, thus ruining the relationship.

So the answer is no.

[Anonymous]

Maybe.. I mean if she just talks it's fine. But pretty sure over doing this for a girl will invite guys to ask her out and all the unwanted attention she shouldn't be wanting if she's in a relationship with me.

But again, I'm not the person to tell her what she should do, if she was devoted to me, she should know ;-) That's the thing about knowing if you found the right personality.

[MCheetah]

Seriously? You had to ask this? Who would say no to this other than extreme introverts? I'm an introvert and even I like friendly women.

[Miristheiss]

Too vague.

Of course. I would have only not dated her if other issues came about or it became obvious we weren't really compatible.

[Asker]

She may come off as an attention seeker to some people, she approaches both guys and girls comfortably

[Miristheiss]

Well, if she always kept a swarm of orbiter guys hanging around her all the time and was flirty with guys regularly that wouldn't make me happy or make me feel like I'm the guy in her life so we wouldn't be a match and I'd move on and pass on her.

[Asker]

I see. How about if it was a soccer game, she had a lot of boys on her team, and she had quick moments of small talk with them?

[Miristheiss]

That is an event.
Teammates. (She is on a guy's team?)
That isn't all the time... on going. So that doesn't sound like there is any issue there at all.
If she is talking and hanging out with these guys and texting them all the time outside of the game then it is probably turning into that situation I wouldn't go for that I mentioned in the previous text.

[Asker]

Thanks man

[AdithyaR]

Chances are low cause the odds that I'd actually talk to a random starnger is very low.
So if a girl like that strikes a conversation with me, I'd basically try to end it immediately and get put of there. Not very into chatting with strangers.

[etexbearkat]

If we were a good match and remained faithful to me, then yes. My grandfather would have talked to a brick wall if the brick wall would have talked back.

[Pogi-Paddy]

Most definitely I would date this kind of girl. If she is outgoing and friendly in public means she thinks of herself highly, she would be a keeper as a girlfriend.🌹

[FatherJack]

Don't date anyway , and would not be my type , I am selective about with whom I interact , more introverted , and women my way are not like that anyway , more scowls than smiles

[Xitomyth]

Sure, why not? Depends on who she is really, and if she's single.

[Lynx122]

Yes :) If she'd be ok with me being less outgoing and maybe help me out a bit in that area.

[spartan55]

Wouldn't bother me, as long as those "random people" all weren't oily bohunks.

[TheBootyChest]

Yeah, because I feel she would be more interested in me then.

[Tommy300]

Yes I would date a woman like that however I'm not that talkative so I woukd leave all that talking the randoms stuff to her

[Redred56]

Wow, self confidence outgoing friendly. Uh where is she?

[Anonymous]

No, I am not interested in some now desperate girl that probably turned down a 100 decent guys because she thought she was better than them.

[BentAssassin99]

I'm an omnivert the intro in me screams fuck no the extro says sure

[DiscomfortZone]

... Why wouldn't I? What's the hypothetical problem?

[Asker]

She may come off as an attention seeker to some people, she approaches both guys and girls comfortably

[DiscomfortZone]

Not every conversation is an act of attention seeking. It depends on manner, topic, behaviour, etc.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, because she would be really easy to get along with. But it wouldn't work for guys who jealous real easily.

[AydenHazor]

Absolutely! Both parties in a relationship need to have their own lives, and I admire her outgoingness

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

No. This is how my ex ended up adding a bunch of coke afflicts to her friend circle and she was the child of two parents that died to addictions.

[Jamie05rhs]

Sure, as long as she knows how to maintain boundaries.

[BubbaTech]

Sure, but those girls don't want to date me. They only want me for my stimulating conversation.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I don't have a problem with it as long she is loyal..

[InferiorElegy]

Nope, she wouldn't ever date me in the first place and if she did I'd only be holding her back.

[msc545]

Maybe. I would be concerned that she has poor judgment and is impulsive

[OddBeMe]

that might get old after a while. for us introverts anyway.

[Waldoe]

Sure, unless she gave me a reason to think she was cheating... but "talkin' ain't cheatin'..."

[Joshua0213]

Yeah I would, nothing wrong with that in my opinion

[Anonymous]

I would but of course she is more than unlikely to make the first move or approach a guy, let alone ask a guy out

[Hawner]

Sure, I don't see a problem with it.

[Asker]

Some people may think that she just wants attention

[Hawner]

Well, the very act of talking to someone demands attention, so that would not be wrong, so I don't see the problem. In order to tell you you seek attention the had to comment here and expect your attention so you read it.
What you do, I think, is being social and friendly, something many people have lost.