Is he just leading me on?

[Anonymous]

I talked to a guy for almost a month through a dating app. Lately when we talked about “first date”… I noticed he keep saying “soon” but never put an actual date…….. like wtf? Is this just leading me on for no actual date? Like why even bother…

I am losing interest because if this and he only seem to respond really late.., I know he has a job that ends at night, goes to school, and we do have long msgs… but still…

[surprisedjo]

Yep, if a guy was truly interested in you it wouldn't have gone past a week. First mistake was chatting with him for so long, if he didn't suggest to go out in the first week (I would even go as far to say the day you first matched him), then you're wasting your time.

[Asker]

Girl, I feel that lol. We do have abit of distance and his busy schedule, so I was like being patient. But now I’m like wait this is so long lol.

[Anonymous]

Yes he is leading you on, or he'd be a man and ask you out.

[Asker]

Why would he lead me on with kept saying that….

[Opinion Owner]

He likes playing games?

[Asker]

Lol I don't know how people can keep that up for so long… it’s quite messed up. Thanks for your honesty, I decided to ghost him.