Why would a guy imply he wants you for sex and as a friend but not a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[RespectfulGuy]

The words friend, friendship have been cheapened much in today's word. To make thing worse, to "unfriend" is as easy as clicking a button.

Hence how much would you pay to buy "friendship" if it were for sale in the market? TBH, I'll not even stop and look. Swipe right is really easy regards interested parties.

With the above lotheing for writing about modern "friendship" (for some reason my mouth feels bitter after writing), may I suggest ask for cash, otherwise save sex for marriage.

I'm a guy and I know many guys will vote to crucify me for writing the above. But I think it's time you girls stop giving your bodies for free, thus making yourselves cheaper than prostitutes of the 1980s, who charged by the hour for their services.

Ya girls, don't be merely equal with guys. Restore your dignity and honor. Be the "better half" since creation.

[Asker]

I 100% agree sex in a long term relationship or marriage. Anything other than that gives me the ick

[Asker]

He’s so convincing though as seems he genuinely wants to be friends and enjoys my company

[RespectfulGuy]

What do you expect of a used car sales man?

Would you buy if he tells you how bad the the air con, the gear box are? And consumes lots of petrol?

No. He makes you feel that the car is brand new and worth more after years of purchase..

Bottomline: he wants to get you to sign the dotted line.

And trust the saying: if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.

[Asker]

So true

[jb2622]

Hard to say for sure but he doesn't see long term, you might have incompatabilitys that just won't work long term and He might only want sex. It's going to end at some point and any friend ship will end it.

[Asker]

So you think the friendship on its own could last?

[jb2622]

Probably if its genuine, if he is just trying to get close no.

[Nikki1989]

That is the only thing most men are good for, but some will even fail as a friend.

[Asker]

So does that mean he just wants me for sex pretending he wants friendship too?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He probably has a fetish of having his head cracked by sexy females.

[AmeerX]

The guy is just a punk. Don't give it to him. He will dump you after the sex. Don't objectify yourself

[Asker]

Thank you. Straight to the point and good advice. So useful to hear from a guys perspective also but women romanticise and imagine settling down with the guy but do you think that’s me thinking too much from a female perspective. It’s hard to figure him out as he also genuinely does seem interested in me and says I’m really interesting to talk to and he’d like to be friends and says we have similar interests

[AmeerX]

Want my honest advice. Tell him to marry you if he wants sex and he will disappear 🤣.
Or even if you have had sex before, even then pretend and tell him you wait till marriage for sex. If he is really good or just wants you as friend he will say something like this, ""your name", dear I shall wait for you forever whenever you are ready".

Note: you are probably feeling this guy here is just full of baloney but trust me, I have seen like a 100 cases where girls here ask advice, do sex with the guy and then he dumps them in few months to an year after taking their youth and innocence and leaving them in their 30s

[Asker]

Thank you. I’m 27 and I don’t do sex outside of marriage. If I don’t find the right one before 30 I’ll just stay single. Easier and less of men pretending to be friends to get in my pants. So the likelihood he wants to be my friend is zero?

[AmeerX]

No, he doesn't. Just tell him he can have all of you if he would only marry him

[jahaims]

You are attractive and fun to spend time with but not relationship material. Basically he wants to use you for all the benefits without the cons of a relationship

[Asker]

So can we just be friends no sex?

[jahaims]

You would have to ask him, obviously. If he says yes, it is probably so he can still get in your pants later

[Summeroflove]

He is using you. Don’t sleep with him. If he runs off and never talks to you anymore. Then yeah…. That’s all he wants you for

[spartan55]

Because that's what he wants from you? What kind of question is this?

[Billlewis]

Because he's a dumb ass?

[Anonymous]

He wants to use u for sex