Why was this guy coworker showing everyone baby photos of his new born except me yet we always talk and laugh etc?

[Anonymous]

[RedInnocent68]

He doesn’t want to rub in his relationship, because he likes you. He’ll happily show you anything you ask for, but you’re like his work girlfriend, kind of a prospective side chick. He needs that barrier in his mind. If he gets too intimate, it’s actually worse. If he talks too much about family, he’ll start complaining to you about his spouse, and it becomes an emotional affair where you’re meeting needs his spouse isn’t. Soon he’ll bitch about how he’s all tense because his spouse wouldn’t help him out last night, you’ll feel sorry for him, and that’s how affairs start…

[Asker]

You sure that’s the only reason?

[Asker]

I don't know he showed other females himself without a problem

[Asker]

When I asked him he said later after you done with load than he technically forgot or something I don't know I’m upset at him

[Asker]

And when I told him about it he said here you want me to show you is that what it is?

[Asker]

What’s going on here I’m literally confused

[RedInnocent68]

Is he as close to the other females as he is to you? Does he like any of them?

[Asker]

I don't know but he be kinda close to this other female girl but like he showed her photo according to her without a problem and they supposedly sit together at lunch even though I believe there might be more people who sit with them but you know still if he sees my as his work wife ish why does he keep stuff from me yet he talks and shares stuff with the other girl i don’t get it

[Asker]

And no she’s not prettier than me I’d say

[Asker]

Can you help me out here a little I just don’t want to seem like a jealous kind either

[RedInnocent68]

I think what I said still stands, but I think you should let it go. You are getting jealous, and there’s no reason to be. You just need to be conscious that he probably likes you, and not take advantage or do something you may regret.

[Asker]

You believe he likes me? You don’t think he might also trying to see my reaction with that other girl?

[Asker]

After I supposedly got upset he was like what do you want me to do for you I will do anything for you that you ask why would he say that Jesus

[RedInnocent68]

Of course he does. What would he gain playing you against the other girl? But more importantly, what do you gain obsessing over it? Do you like him? Do you want a kid with him?

[Asker]

Hell no I just honestly every time keep pushing him away he keeps getting me somehow

[Asker]

What would he gain playing me over her I guess gain her instead of me or you think he trying to see my reaction

[RedInnocent68]

Fine. Drop it. He likes you. He’s playing a game in his own mind. You shouldn’t.

[Asker]

Why is he playing game

[RedInnocent68]

He can’t help it. He likes you. Now you know. Just drop it.

[Asker]

Okay thanks 🙏