My side dude and I have talked about meeting up on a specific day, and I sent an address. should I text to confirm or just show up?

[Anonymous]

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We have been talking/texting for months and have only met in person once, the first time we met. We have tried to arrange a meetup several times but something has come up for one of us each time. Finally found a day that could work, wondering if I should confirm with him, or just assume he’ll be there.

[Iron_Man]

What do you mean a side dude? Are you cheating

[Asker]

It’s more of a situation ship. And I’m separated.

[Iron_Man]

How come you are the same person that always says Situationship

[Asker]

Not sure what you mean… I just joined 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Iron_Man]

Sure

[In_Trance]

What do you need to confirm if you've already agreed?

[Asker]

Just wanting to know if I should confirm day of?

[Anonymous]

Text?

Can't you talk?

[Asker]

We’ve only ever texted.

[Anonymous]

How long have you been separated for

[Anonymous]

Confirm with him..

[Asker]

thanks! Should I keep it light/joking? Like change your mind? 😉 or will I see you there? Sorry this is so new to me, and I’m quite a bit older than he is.

[Asker]

Can’t… can you me?