Guy jumped at my contact request but now he's not responding?

[Anonymous]

I sent a contact request to a guy on a dating site and he immediately accepted like in light speed. That was two days ago and I sent a message that night too, now he just got online an hour ago and I still don't have a response.

Does that mean he's not interested? 🙃 Everyone tells me I intimidate guys and that's why I should take the initiative

[Mach40]

It's not uncommon for people on dating sites to accept contact requests quickly and then take some time to respond to messages. People have different reasons for their response times, and it's important to remember that online dating can be a bit unpredictable.

Here are a few possibilities for why he might not have responded yet:

1. He's busy: He may have been online briefly but occupied with other things and didn't have the time to respond to messages.

2. He's cautious: Some people take their time to get to know someone before responding to messages to ensure they feel comfortable and interested.

3. Technical issues: It's possible that he didn't receive your message notification, or there could be technical issues with the dating site or app.

4. He's not interested: While this is a possibility, it's essential not to jump to conclusions. People's response times can vary for various reasons, and it doesn't necessarily reflect their level of interest.

Give him a little more time, and if you're still interested, you can consider sending a friendly follow-up message or wait for him to respond when he's ready. Patience is often a good approach in online dating.

[Mariabea]

Women shouldn't take the first step towards looking, you can leave obvious signs and wait for him to look for you, otherwise you become uninteresting to them, let them come to you

[adam6402]

As a guy I've gotta say I can't fully agree with this. Making the first move is fine and actually very attractive, you just need to know when to pull back from the lead role and let the guy go after you.

[kylee2437]

He’s not intimidated lol he’s just doing dating app behavior. A lot of people on those apps like to play games because they are on there out of pure boredom.

[BarryLiverstone]

He is probably talking to other people

[hammeronfire]

He probably just doesn’t like you

[In_Trance]

He's not interested

[YAsQuen]

are u ugly?

[Asker]

Starting to think I am yeah

[YAsQuen]

so ur mid - proly mind games