Does a guy's talent or skills help him to find great girls?

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TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

No, I have lots of talent and skills, and they actually make it harder to meet women because:

1. I now only want a hot woman who matches or compliments my talent and skills, this reduces my dating pool to less than 1% of the population.

2. I spend half of my time on said talents and skills, rather than socializing, this reduces my chances of meeting that 1% by 50%. I also spend the other half gaming, and while I can meet people gaming, I like unpopular games, so my chances of meeting any of that 1% are reduced by another 25%.

Its very lonely up here, I try to multitask so I can socialize while working on my hobbies/skills/talents, but often I get sucked into my own little world, and most of my available social venues lack my type of woman (science minded geeky artistic gamer).

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No, ony if his talent or skills translate into some kind of status... such as an athlete, musician, actor. Otherwise, if not, it's his ability to fit a stereotype. There's a reason millions of guys in the U. S. are called baby daddies, not fiance's or husbands. He outwardly fit a stereotype (faux tough guy, wannabe gangster, small time dope dealer). Quite a few women... found them attractive enough to procreate with.😉But if you're not 1 of those guys, then your talent or skills need to translate into status. Pro athletes, musicians and actors aren't hurting for female attention, trust me.🤗Neither are deadbeat baby daddies. Bear in mind, this is from an American perspective, so it's hardly global.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Yes definitely!!! What good is a guy that doesn't know how to maneuver life?
Personally what turns me on in a guy is if he knows how to fix things, could be stuff around the house, car, etc.

I already miss my boyfriend that died a month ago today. He knew how to fix just about anything! Now it's up to me to take care of that kind of stuff. My nickname is Damsel in Distress 🤷🏼‍♀️

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

I think it's  ALL  about talent and skills. If you have neither, I think it's impossible to get women, unless you get women with no talent and skills who aren't interested in someone with wit and verve. I certainly know it's what I look for, as well as warmth and kindness. That's pretty much the entire package.

coachTanthony · Answer

Rock Stars smash for a reason doesn't matter what they look like.

Billlewis · Answer

I've said it before and I'll say it some more -- if you want to improve your social life, stop thinking in terms of getting into her pants and scoring -- approach her with the mentality of, 'What can I do for her, how can I make her happy?' And even after the relationship is underway, maintain that philosophy, and never deviate from it. When you're trying to think of what you want to do, say, 'Why don't I trim the hedges and wash your car?' Every day that you're able to serve her in some way is a huge victory. You'll go home thinking, 'Wow, that was a fantastic night!' Really. I know it probably sounds strange, but if you give it a chance, you won't believe what that approach can do, for both you and her.

dynamicyandere · Answer

Confidence is the #1 thing that attracts women.

When you build your skills and achieve your goals, it’ll build your confidence.

It comes hand in hand.

Also, the skills that you should hone should include social skills and relationship skills — not simply hobbies.

If you’re a confident guy with great social skills and relationship skills, you’re golden.

Lliam · Answer

I think so.
Being a surfer helped me to get girls.
Playing guitar helped me to get girls. In jr high and high school, I would carry my acoustic guitar around to parties or when there were gatherings at parks. And when I was playing lead guitar and singing lead in rock bands in high school and in my 20s, girls loved me.

Anonymous · Answer

yes but I can only speak to the fact that I personally do think some skills can add extra points onto somebody I am attracted to i. e. multilingualism, manual dexterity, playing an instrument (usually guitar, drums or piano lol) etc.
or if you’re just like a triple threat, like I already thought jonathan groff was hot, but all his talent makes him hotter

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Yes, skills are necessary to not only be a developed and interesting but can be used for profit or fun, but it is what gives a level of confidence and competence which attracts others. You still need to be able to socialize and make connections, have charm and charisma to pull that off as well.

Bottom line, if you have skills that you are good at and allow you to display them and give you an aura of confidence, it will draw women to you. It is one reason I am with my girl now.

molonski2 · Answer

Of course it does , if you have a special talent " get it out there " , a quality talent will attract a quality individual , now it depends on the talent of course , academic , sport , chess , juggling , comic , etc etc - all great attractive skills.

If you skill was " The worlds greatest stubby drinker " ( Aussie Beer ) I'd probably keep that one quiet , and just mention it in passing that you made a lot of money , drinking masses of stubbies.

Buzzybee1990 · Answer

Definitely. I love a guy who's ambitious and always learning new abilities, skills, and knowledge. Men are always impressed by my ability to do the same (but im married, so thats as far as it goes.). It shows some great qualities in both men and women.

It also helps a person become more successful faster because they have skills others don't have and have the drive to go above and beyond.

ZackBan · Answer

Depending on the skill itself.

A chess player won't attract more girls than a guitar player. Both hard skills to learn but one sexier than the other.

If you wanna know what women are into the trick is to read "mommy porn" novels and see what the men depicted in them are like.

*mommy porn novels = romance books written for a female audience

WillowofFeathers · Answer

Yes it does. Because it is a sign of some sort of curiosity, discipline and the desire to learn. And if it is a common interest or skill it is a topic that can be discussed on a first date

Selliebeanz · Answer

Mmmm partially. I love a guy who has good practical skills like fixing up cars, occasionally cooking, household things. How he treats me is what’s most important though.

Mangospacho · Answer

A wise philosopher once said that girls only want boyfriends with great skills

Anonymous · Answer

No. It's purely by the luck of the draw. I will say this though the more visible the more engaging you are the greater your odds are. Women are common, but quality women are rare. And quality woman while they might approach you they aren't going to do it with closed mouthed, timid guys.

Anonymous · Answer

If you want a great girl you have to be a great guy. It doesn't matter how I intelligent, handsome or talented you are, if you're a shit person, you're a shit person. What matters is the heart and the guys personality. If he's sweet, loving, caring, respectful others, had good morals etc.

HippoDino · Answer

Yes, talent shows passion and dedication which girls like. It also can lead to success or at least shows you have the ability to stand out when you want to. Success is an attractive quality.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Absolutely. Talent and skills often equals hobbies, passions, dreams which is incredibly attractive.

moconnell · Answer

yes, even if you're good at something stupid. it shows you took the time to actually master something

Radiate143 · Answer

For me I find it hard to connect with a guy who has no passion or ambition. So yes!

Avicenna · Answer

Depending on what they are, it definitely can. A great dancer, musician, linguist or comedian will get lots of women. Athletic and mechanical talent also.

Yannae · Answer

In a way it does, because what it took you to get that shaped you as a person. Sure you have a crazy skill. But to obtain it, you had to be determined, ambitious, patient, have a strong will, passion. A drive that people in general look up to.

Honest-Matt · Answer

Anyone, male or female that has a passion, is an attractive person. They have a personality, a purpose.

Juan_Sheet · Answer

My ability to just chat and listen was skills enough to get my wife. Apparently I'm a nice guy, or so she says. Everyone has abilities or qualities that are attractive, is that not skills enough?

AviatorTom · Answer

In general, I don't think it helps to find great girls, but talent and skills do help keep them around.

genericname85 · Answer

no. talents and skills help a man build a life for himself that a girl may wanna be a part of. but your focus should not be the girl. your focus should be building the life that you want.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

The confidence and independence he gained from said talents and skills is what attracts women..

strateguy632 · Answer

usually skills, but sometimes she felt attracted then even without skill

Flatmanlewis · Answer

100% yes. It can be just about any skill if the woman is intrigued by that particular skill.

Peanut_Lemon · Answer

Of course, but be sure to be careful around majority of these money hungry people.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I guess it depends on what his talents and skills are

TacosRAwesome · Answer

More girls. Not great girls. But if he can attract 10 girls a week instead of 10 girls a year, one of them is more likely to be great.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Quality high value women?  No.  I work on cars but i only seem to attract skanks , bimbos , single moms and 304s

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Absolutely! Artists and musicians seem to have an easier go. But even accountants can splash some cash, which helps, based on a skill.

2021biguy · Answer

I can restore cars, make things out of wood, add a room on a house, fix things, cook, but no one knows that until they get to know you, so it doesn't help to find great girls.

OddBeMe · Answer

It helps you be interesting. So indirectly perhaps. I think more directly. But of course when meeting people on both sides, we have to fight past shallowness.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Of course. Funny dudes and musicians fuck for a reason 😂

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Not that I can tell, unless said girl is plastic and ONLY goes after those kinds of guys.

zagor · Answer

Depends on what they are. If he's a musician or athlete, sure. If it's math skills, probably not, unless he becomes a lecherous professor.

Sparkie460 · Answer

No his personality helps him find girls. His skills, if they are good, keep the girls attracted to him

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

It’ll help him get more social skills but it’s up to him to find the great woman

Meropatrick · Answer

Of course thats why all rockstars get the girls

Marklaw12 · Answer

There's always someone for everybody. Your skill can either be a turn on/off for a girl.

Lokiion · Answer

Yeah because it builds confidence and shows you work hard for stuff

Iron_Man · Answer

When you’re young in your prime, you’re not really settled in life as far as a career goes

Likes2drive · Answer

I’m sure it doesn’t hurt and can be useful in some situations depending on what they are

dolemite58 · Answer

ya it’s like that quote that they keep saying all the time now that women are born with value and men have to earn theirs.

krin_m · Answer

Not sure what skills or talent you are referring to. But, in general, skills and talents are attractive, whether in a man or a woman.

Masterodd · Answer

Sadley NO... Remember they all want the top 10% and then only the top 1% of them.

Guardian45 · Answer

Simple answer is 'Yes'. Define a guy's talent or skills? Define a great girlsl?

In_Trance · Answer

There's no end of guys without talent that get girls

whirled_up_girl · Answer

It probably does sometimes.

BLP11520 · Answer

Yes, singers and musicians, chess players? ahh not so much.

Anonymous · Answer

No, women don't care about that. They only care if you're funny or charming or attractive.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

It is important to have character

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, look at musicians.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Women like confidence. Simply put

Jamie05rhs · Answer

To find them? No. To attract them? Yes.

grega239 · Answer

Not as far as i can tell

shades777 · Answer

neither. you need to look the part and be the part

Anonymous · Answer

It would seem so.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

For sure.

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