Will I have to start seeing less of him?

[Anonymous]

My guy friend keeps thinking because we’re close friends and I’m female that he can just keep hitting on me no matter how often I say no or hint at it being annoying and it’s getting really annoying. He is heaps older and sees himself as debonair, but he’s not. I find him completely undesirable in every possible way, except as an older sibling. The things I could say would stop him, but they’d devastate him and be really unnecessarily cruel and I feel he doesn’t deserve cruelty. I think he’s just lonely and he thinks he’ll wear me down.

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I’m going anonymous. He doesn’t use this site, but there’s no need to hurt him.

[boggboss]

He is your friend but your not his friend he sees you as the girl he wants not the girl he wants to be friends with

[Asker]

Good point. Although I think he sees everyone as the girl he wants, as long as they’re not menopausal.

[boggboss]

Then he sounds like a terrble person to attempt to be friends with

[Asker]

Well, it’s starting to really annoy me. He’s starting to feel entitled to having me and I’m only seeing him more often to cheer him up, because he’s going through a rough time.

[boggboss]

Equally u need to put your foot down u seeing him to cheat him up will be validation that his behaviour is fine

[Asker]

You’re right. I’m going to have to start avoiding him.

[Asker]

Should I only see him in a group?

[boggboss]

Thats honestly for u to decide

[Asker]

I think I will do that.. from now on

[Danny_dan92]

He wants to fuck