Is he starting to miss me?

[lexih_919]

So my ex knows I watch this girls live on tiktok. He use to never go into her live before. I was in her chat room and I saw his name popped up so he was in the chat room too. Why did he do this?

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by the way I also have him blocked on everything besides tiktok

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I watched her all the time by the way when I was at his house he would see me watching her.

[Oliverlogan263]

Eh, it's kind of hard to say for sure without knowing all the details of your history with this ex. But from what you described, it does seem like it's possible he might be starting to miss you a bit. Some things that make me think that:

- He went out of his way to go into a live you were watching, when he's never done that with her before. That's a bit of an unusual thing to do just by coincidence.

- By appearing in the chatroom he knew you'd see his name pop up. Seems like he wanted you to notice he was there, even if just subtly.

- Guys sometimes find weird little ways to get a girl's attention again, like watching the same stuff she is online. Could be a passive way for him to think about you.

Of course, it's also totally possible it was just random and nothing deep. But my guy sense is telling me he might be feeling some nostalgia or regret about your breakup. Especially if the split was recent.

I'd say don't obsess over it too much for now. But you could try casually messaging him sometime to see how he responds. His reaction may give you a better idea if he's thinking of reconnecting at all. Just my two cents! Lemme know if any other signs come up.

[naartjie]

No he doesn’t miss you😭 this isn’t the movies. He doesn’t care. If he cared he’d be begging at your door. He’ll be making any way to be by you and to fix things. He doesn’t care.

[lexih_919]

I told him for us to take space away from each other and made it clear to him I don’t want to see him. I told him to not come to my job anymore and have him blocked on everything.

[naartjie]

Good. Don’t contact him. At all. Zero contact and acting like you don’t care does drive them crazy, it’s an ego hit for them. You yourself need to move on though. He won’t be sitting there missing your or wanting you back.

[lexih_919]

My friend said he misses me though and that he wants to hear from me soon but I still have him blocked.

[naartjie]

He wants to hear from you? If he wanted to hear from you, he’d be making a plan. Have you blocked him in every single thing and he doesn’t know where you live? If he has contact with your friend then trust me he could make a way. He hasn’t. He doesn’t care.
Don’t you go messaging him now though. Don’t crawl back to him.
What was the reason for the breakup

[lexih_919]

I do have him blocked on everything so he has like no way to contact me. Yeah my friend messaged me last night and said he loves and misses me and he wants me to contact him sooner than later since I’m the one who has him blocked.

[naartjie]

Why do you have him blocked? What has happened for things to get to this point

[spartan55]

Why do you automatically think him being in chat has something to do with you?

[lexih_919]

Because he knew I watched her all the time and it’s not a tiktoker that he’s into.

[spartan55]

That doesn't matter. If he wanted to talk to you he wouldn't hang around some stupid livestream, he would just message you.

[lexih_919]

I have him blocked on everything so he can’t message me

[spartan55]

So why do you care if he 'misses you' then? You girls make no sense.