Is if he wanted to he would a real thing?

[Anonymous]

Is this a real thing or is this just something you tell your friends so they feel better?

[HippoDino]

Its real, if a guy wants you he will go for you. If he loves you then he will make you know he loves you. Dont make excuses for guys that dont treat you how you should he treated just move on.

[Monalisa77]

Alright so why do guys flirt but dont ask u out?

[HippoDino]

Flirting doesn't guarantee he wants you, some people flirt for fun or to feel wanted. Im not sure what type of flirting you are talking about but if a guy wants you he will pursue you. Whether that means he keeps flirting whenever he can or he tries to hang out with you, compliments you.

[Monalisa77]

Would flirting include staring?

[HippoDino]

I suppose, but if all he's doing is staring at you that doesn't really mean that much, and staring is kind of creepy anyway

[Monalisa77]

Not all he's doing, but its still early days n we only c each other once a month

[HippoDino]

At the end of the day, no one can truly know what's going on in his head. If you like him don't be scared to let him know. Being rejected sucks but it isn't the worst thing in the world, you won't even remember it after a week.

[Monalisa77]

Im getting old n ill be too scared to do it again lol

[HippoDino]

If you don't do it you will regret it, think of all the things you were like i wish i did this when i was younger. This could be one of them, i bet you though you won't think back and be like wow i shouldn't have asked him out.

[Monalisa77]

Its just cos we go to the same event every week is whats worrying me

[Monalisa77]

Every month, i need sleep

[Nikki1989]

Yes, men with motivation and confidence always make a move.

[Monalisa77]

How to tell from the shy ones tho? And they can be confident in some situations but not when it comes to girls?

[HippoDino]

If he doesn't explicitly say it he will show it with actions. If he's going above and beyond and treating you like a princess, or at least he's always there when you need him and just shows he cares for you. Then he likes you and just doesn't know how to say it.

[Monalisa77]

Can u read my previous qs?

[HippoDino]

Even if a guy isn't confident with girls there will be signs he likes her. Assuming you actually speak to him. If he has a crush on you but never talks to you well, you can't really date someone you don't talk to right?

[Monalisa77]

Lol we do talk a bit, but we talked way more before the flirting suddenly things got awkward 😂

[HippoDino]

Well, you can always be the one to tell him how you feel. One of you needs to and it sounds like he won't the worst that could happen is he will turn you down and you can move on.

[Monalisa77]

Im Not entirely sure if i do yet cos i like a guy more when he puts effort into talk to me to get to know me, im Not just about how fit they r lol but i did try to start with through my cousin but it never went anywhere 😂

[Monalisa77]

N we go to the same event every month

[Anonymous]

Hard to know depends on the girls interest shown and could be complicated reasons also

[Asker]

she's showing very obvious interest