When guy say it’s always nice to be with you?

[Anonymous]

is that more like friendly meaning?

[DaveJord]

I am like 47 years old so... It all depends on the where you are in the relationship. So, if it was a first date, all I am going to say is that it was really nice, and I would like to do it again. I am not going to be like, it was amazing you make me feel like I am schoolboy again when I am around you.

But if we have been out together a few times, and I want to go out more... I am not talking about it in terms of "Nice", not if I am really into you. I am not going to leave a woman guess about whether or not I am really into her.

But then again, I am 47 and single and I am constantly meeting with failure... so don't take my word for anything.

[Asker]

This was the second time we met. Also he said it was really fun.

[DaveJord]

Yeah I would say he's probably into you on some level. 3rd to 5th date territory, I am talking in different terms other than just nice and fun.

I say things like, it has been really fun, and I really enjoyed spending time with you, I would like to do it again and see where it goes. But I really appreciate the time you have spent with me, so what are you doing next week?

So, second date is still a little early for him to be laying out all his cards, he might still be worried about scaring you off.

[Asker]

We are old school friends and I have already confessed to him that I have a crush on him. Why is he afraid anymore?

[DaveJord]

I do not know, why. He's not the one move on. I am in these situations all the time, where she said this and did that, so what the hell does she mean that she is not ready to be dating? Why would she of done this and said these things if she is not ready. It all amounts to a crap ton of wasted time.

You never know why honestly, truly and like WTF? I don't even try to ask shy or even care anymore. Fuck it and fuck her, fuck him... move on.

[DaveJord]

Its something about me that women want to get all deep and talkitive with me. Then they go home and probally think about all the things she said and shared with me, all thinks I never asked. but for one reason or the other she felt sharing all things with me. Now she is home and alone and going through it all and processing it all... and she feels vulurable now. Like why the hell did I tell this guy all these things about me, that I have never shared with anyone before. And way was he so nice and understanding about everything. Like what the hell would this guy want to date me, whats he really up to...

And there you go; she does want to date me anymore... that the best thing I can come up with. No other way to explain it to me. But honestly, I do not know why, but it's a curse honestly.

[Asker]

I want to send private message but i can't. I following you.

[DaveJord]

Look, you want to Dm me and get all deep and personal? Let me tell you this. If you are not 35 or older... if you don't live in the California Central Valley, and if you are not looking to date me... I am not trying to get personal.

Your anonymous so anything you want to talk about we can talk here.

[Asker]

Then forget it.

[DaveJord]

No worries, thanks though.

[In_Trance]

He doesn't want to be your friend

[Asker]

what he wants?

[In_Trance]

Duh...

[Asker]

I dont know 🤔?

[Asker]

tell me?

[Asker]

He hates me?