Is it a turn on when a guy seems really happy to talk to you?

[blue-kev]

Do girls like guys who are into them. What if he seesm normal and then you walk into the room and he gets all excited.

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+1 y

Ok girls you said if you don't like the guy it gets creepy. But explain what makes you not like him. Give an example so guys know how to avoid falling into this category

[Anonymous]

Yes to me it is a turn on as long as they don't come on too strong. For example, there is a guy I know that is a customer where I work and even though I have a boyfriend it turns me on to know this guy is interested. The reason I think is because I like how if I am busy he will walk around and browse like he is looking at things until I am free and then he makes it a point to talk to me. But the way he does it has more to do with than anything. He always says hey how are you and calls me by my name and we mostly just talk about everytday things like the weather, the news, etc. However; the way that he throws in a compliment every now and then makes me likes me. Things like telling me in the middle of a conversation that I am photogenic or telling me how smart I am. Things like that don't freak us out and let's us know you are interested and makes us want to keep talking to you and seeing you. What frreaks me out is if a guys is always saying things about how pretty you are and making comments about your body and just being rude about it. I do like it a lot when I can tell he's really happy to be talking to me for me and not some other motive.

[shuba]

Hi

Bluekev

but I have a queston. I wrote you in the other posts. this guy doesnot seem to approach me. its always I have to intiate the contact. even if we meet maybe . If only we meet coincidentally. then I guess we both will begin.

The problem is why is he not coming and talking and spending time with me. is it because of his huge gang.( his mates). Becasue I think when a guy likes a girl. he will do it. HOW looonng will I have to make moves on him.



sometimes I feel ...well all he wanted was just friendship.. idiot person, I hope you remember all he did to me. And now it seems the Guy thought lets leave it to friendship.lol.

seriously it seems if I donot talk to him for months... he won't BOTHER .

plzzz reply me'

SHUBA

[shuba]

Hi

i would like to say something. I feel sometimes. that the guy isn't bothered wether I talk to him or not. Look. bluekev. don't you not think when you like someone. A feeling comes within you to talk to the person. spend time. the days I donot talk to him. is because I feel as if I am the one showing interest NOT HE. why don't you think in these terms regarding me.

I mean how looong I am going to intiate the convo. HE just didnot even ask me my phone number. now that he isn't asking I feel he doesn't care wether he has my phone No. or not.

what do you say? I hope I make sense.

[chocolate-lover]

its a turn on if I like that guy or he is a close friend or something,.

but if I don't like him ,and I don't feel I 'm happy talking to him, this is disgusting for me !

(don't know why)

may be the guy is not my type, and so I don't like him with no reason, even if he is nice to me.

(appearance do matter)

[blue-kev]

Ok what is the guy doing to make you not like him so that we can avoid doing it

[chocolate-lover]

Well,

there is nothing specific to say, I value a guy over all, and if I felt not interested or kinda not as happy as he is when talking, it turns me off. sometimes, he didn't do anything but I just don't feel comfort when talking to him.

i don't like a guy who is not my type, but still wants to hang-out, even that he knows he is only a friend, but still making jokes and try to be funny in a way to attract me!!

being stick, I gets on my nerves !!

[josh-in-the-box]

so I'm a guy but a lot of guys liked my girl before I got with her

well one guy was a total drugy and fell hard for any girl he liked so it was kind of obsessive. then he would chose drugs over seeing her anyways and post bulletins on myspace apologizing

another guy was her friend but was always too shy to talk to her yet said he loved her and had her has his number 1 on myspace

the last guy I knew about was even creepy to me. he was kind of stalkering. I saw him one day around town and I walked from food4less to starbucks which was a couple blocks and the guy followed me all the away there. not even talking to me. and I'm a guy who isn't even his friend so I could only imagine how bad he was to her.

anyways those are a few examples of being creepy!

kind of extreme but ya. creepy

[amoh24]

you could be the guy of my dreams, but as soon as you ACT like I'm the girl of your dreams, my attraction to you is OVER. I can't tell you why. this is a ridicccculous thing, but it's exactly the way you guys are about the chase. we need a chase too. if we're too easy, you move on and vice versa. there is nothing wrong with you being happy that we're around you but by all means don't show it! in fact...act indifferent. if you're sort of hot and cold (in the beginning) you'll grab our attention and then stunt us and keep us guessing...unfortunately there is a perfectly balanced equation of hot and cold that changes for each situation..you'll have to gauge that on your own.

[digital_haze]

Ugg.. Not a fan of this attitude.

[vmw2008]

If I'm interested of course it's a turn on. I realize that's kind of vague because at the time you don't really know we're interested. If I'm giving you some undivided attention, touching my hair, laughing a lot, basically being flirty, then yes I'm interested and yes it's a turn on that you're really happy. Just don't take it overboard to the point that I think "Wow, this guy is on drugs or he doesn't get women very often."

[Cute1223455]

If Me and the Guy Have a thing then yesss , It deffinatley turns me on , and makes me really happy when he's excited to talk to me , and to see me. It makes me feel good.

[shuba]

hi

yess I will comment on new york city. but you never said about the Faith ... what I wrote. WHY? you didnot like it. I expected you to say something.

plzzz reply.

[SarahBabeeXO]

of course! but not so intense or in an obsessed way. If we smile and stuff its a big turn on and especially if its the guy I like. just don't be clingy or creppy if your happy ; )

[socrGTSTY]

omg yes. if I'm into him and I know he's happy to see me I feel like I'm the only thing that matters to him and I love that. but if its like someone I don't really know its kinda creepy.

[meow-D]

its a huge turn on, just as long as you don't get too clingy. just let her know your happy to see her. smile at her a lot and make eye contact so she can see that your interested.

[shuba]

hey

are you okay ? you don't seem to reply much nowadays... Have I lost contact with you

bye.

[Anonymous]

If a guy ignores you when you walk into a room it's a big turn off, but it's also a big turn off if they get too excited. For me I like it when he smiles when he sees me and still pays attention to everyone else. When we're alone.that's when all eyes are on me haha

[LoveStruck-Starship]

Yes very much so.

As long as he isn't clingy or obsessive.

[LoveStruck-Starship]

Like following me around, or always trying to be around me.

Space is good.

[-StillWater-]

Yes! If I like the guy as well, but if I don't then it's just tiresome!

[banker]

Haha, at least it shows consistency....

[banker]

Yes, it is a turn on if I like the guy. If he is not my type then it gets creepy.

[-StillWater-]

OMG I didn't even see your comment!

Haha xD

[Sherile]

thats is definitely a TURN ON. We gurls like to be treated as if we were queens :)

[Writergirl3212]

If I walk into a room and a guy that I like just kind of lihgts up and gets all excited just because I walked in. It definitely turns me on as well as makes me feel very special.