After the first date he said I was like a god and he worships me?

[lamuñekita]

after the first date he keeps telling me i’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him and how i’m the best person in his life and he only cares about me, he worships the ground i walk on, he can’t live without me and that there’s no one in the world that’s as beautiful as me, he doesn’t even want to look at another woman anymore and he’s extremely addicted to me and needs to see me everyday.

why do men think we fall for this BS?

[236color]

Horny young men have trouble thinking beyond the pounding of hormones roaring in our ears. He's just throwing whatever he can think of at the wall to see what sticks. So really, 2 choices. First, since you're clearly not into this line, just drop his ass. Hopefully he'll learn better after a while. Second, if you feel sorry for him and wish to help in his future growth, have a serious sit down with him. Explain that this hyperbolic devotion is #1 creepy, #2 unconvincing, #3 unsuccessful. Suggest that the more productive route is treat women as actual human beings instead of the goalposts in a sporting event. It's likely that approach will fall on deaf ears, (again, the hormones thing), but at least you will have tried to help.

[lamuñekita]

i wish i could tattoo this on my forehead

[DannyUk2017]

You are exactly the kind of woman, that i was reffering in to one of my feeds... if we love, worship you, like you to the moon and back... And still not GOOD, if we treat you bad, talk trashy to you, despise you, start to moan and complain... either way you CANNOT BE SATISFIED! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️... My gosh! Just take whatever is Good from these, and if you don't like it, just tell the Guy/Man that you're just not in to Something serious!!! 🤦‍♂️

[lamuñekita]

i barely even know him …. also he keeps touching me up and kissing me it’s weird, also keeps talking about my body. it’s so obvious he wants to bring me to bed and that’s that

[DannyUk2017]

Then test hom, see of he wants "something" more than just bed...

[spartan55]

Surely you have some shit test you can throw at him if you want to keep seeing him. Why would you though?

[lamuñekita]

@spartan55 i don’t got time for that i’m not interested 🤣

[spartan55]

Avoid love bombers, your decision was the right one.

[lamuñekita]

@spartan55 also kept talking about touching my body and how he was gonna try and win it

[spartan55]

Lol what a dumbass

[_Maya_]

Wow. That's a major red flag in my opinion. Anyone who can say that after one date isn't being serious or honest. You can't get to know someone to that point after one date. That's the whole point of going on dates... plural... is to get to know someone over multiple meetups. This guy sound slime he is trying to turbo charge the process and get in your pants. I would be cautious with this one if you even want to go on another date. Seems super clingy.

[laurieluvsit]

Because so many do fall for it.

It works many times to get them to their ultimate goal most quickly... getting into your panties.

So they continue to use it over and over again even though it may only work on a percentage of girls, that is good enough.

... you know I'm right!

[spartan55]

This is true, but unless he is a total dipshit he will figure out his approach is like bug repellant.

[Anonymous]

Major red flag. For one if a man is like that, believe it or not women may say that’s what they want. A man who worships them. But after a while it gets boring because he’s doing everything to please you. You can do no wrong, he puts you on a pedestal. He won’t fight back, meaning he doesn’t stand up much for himself. So women tend to not like that either. Many women have said I want a man who stands up for himself, who even argues w me, not just agreeing w everything I say. So a lot of women have no respect for a man like this. They run over him, may cheat on him. At the same time the fact that he bombarded you w all this is too much at once.

[Lionman95]

Because they´ve been educatted by some bs community on reddit or discord making them lose self-respect for some girl´s attention. On there girls ask guys to be that stupid so it´s a sign that he may have all he knows of women from being online.

[lamuñekita]

nah he’s high up socially he doesn’t use those apps. lots of friends, bad rep too. he just wanted to smash

[Anonymous]

lol. He probably is genuine. There are lot of guys that genuinely worship the ground that women walk on.. I think they are pathetic, idiots… there is not a female alive that I worship the ground she walks on. It’s got to be the complete opposite for me. Or they out the door. That’s absolutely pathetic!

[lamuñekita]

i haven’t even done enough to gain his “immense” respect he has for me anyways. it’s over exaggerated, obviously fake, and desperate. already opening his doors to his house for me, walking on the street hand in hand, touching and talking about my body. keeps hinting he wants to have sex. it’s painfully obvious he’s love bombing for some quick cheap sex

[Opinion Owner]

It’s all around pathetic by him…

[aceleon]

İ don't know if he is Okay in the head this is the greatest bullshit i ever saw.

[DextroShade]

This is yet another reason why I tell men not to simp.

[lamuñekita]

it’s not even simping it’s litterally plain lying to get me into bed, i found out later he never gave a s*** about me and just wanted to fck.

[lamuñekita]

also i just met him like 5 days ago. if we were in a relationship i maybe would find it sweet

[Anonymous]

May be he isn't lying because some men do worship women

[lamuñekita]

but in person he’s kinda dry. he has me on his arm all the time or touching my body

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me he worships you. May be try making him lick your feet for a change and see how he reacts.

[lamuñekita]

woah i just met him like 5 days ago 😬 thinking of ghosting

[Opinion Owner]

Better idea is squeeze him out of his money a little. Will teach him a lesson 😜

[lamuñekita]

he doesn’t spend on me

[Opinion Owner]

I am curious. Jokes aside, you like him or not?

[lamuñekita]

not anymore

[Opinion Owner]

Why not?

[lamuñekita]

lovebombing for sex? quite obvious, like i said under another comment, he keeps talking about touching my body and telling me i should have sex with him because he “treats me the best he can”. manipulative behaviour just for a quick fuck. i’ve known him for less than a week. also keeps talking bad about all his exes and kissed me on the mouth when i said no while i was drunk (him sober)

[Opinion Owner]

Nah, stay away from him.

[Anonymous]

Because a lot of women due. Sorry to disappoint you.😆😆😆

[Billlewis]

Hey, it's worth a try, right?

[BigDog1989]

he's putting the pussy on the pedestal

[lamuñekita]

literally

[LunarEclipse433]

Was sex involved in the first date?

[lamuñekita]

nope, first date was kinda boring

[LunarEclipse433]

Then that would be a huge red flag if I was you.

[shades777]

seriously doubt anyone would say that

[spartan55]

A bit too hyperbolic unless he's from the Shakespeare era.

[Jmmmfi4]

THATS A BIT MUCH