Are guys mostly attracted to girls who are mean or nice?

[Toriixlovely]

[Exterminatore]

Most men would say nice. Masochistic men would say mean.


As for me, nice is fine, and if they’re mean, not a problem. I’m an attitude adjuster. I’ll make them be nice.


But that’s a false dichotomy in some ways. There’s more to it. I prefer nice but confident and even maybe a little bold. By nice I mean not bitchy. Subservient is fine also but I need her to have a healthy self esteem. She can rank herself under me, but has to value herself. If she doesn’t like herself, I’m gonna have a hard time liking her also.

[Toriixlovely]

Perfectly said!!

[Exterminatore]

Thank you.

[Exterminatore]

@nck

Of course you don’t. It’s abnormal for women to like men like that except for sadistical women and narcissists.

Different strokes for different folks.

[Exterminatore]

I just did say so.

[Exterminatore]

I do the spanking around here.

[Billlewis]

Would you spank another guy, if your wife or girlfriend wanted to watch you spank him? Just spank him, nothing else.

[love_conquers_lust]

@Billlewis Hahahahahahahahaha. Bill, you da man.

@Exterminatore. You’re not worthy of the ground women consecrate with their footsteps. Bad peacock, bad.

[Billlewis]

@love_conquers_lust Yes, Sir, thank you very much for your assessment.

[MrNameless]

Mean is toxic. Guys DO NOT like drama. Now some guys do like women who may be feisty and stand up for themselves (and you) but for the right reasons. It's definitely a personality thing. But being just plain mean should not be tolerated.

[MrNameless]

When I say "you," I mean women standing up for their man.

[MrNameless]

I want a kind woman. Someone who treats strangers and their loved ones good. Someone who doesn't look down on others and is level headed. But I also appreciate an honest woman. Sometimes overly nice feels fake. I can't always tell, because women mask a lot.

[MrNameless]

Crap I keep remembering things I want to add. I think teasing and some feistiness is fine. But they need to be at least respectful. I just don't like mean for the sake of being mean. That just means they have a shit personality to me.

[Unit1]

nice girls for me ❤️💕

Mean girls can go twerk for gangster rappers. They belong there

[Unit1]

Good choice! Cheers

[Kodvik]

There is a personal preference there... But don't get me wrong... Even the guys that like "mean" girls... Don't like toxicity... They just like being a sub to a dom...

If a girl is toxic, the only guy that will like them is the ones that are toxic themselves or the "a bit mentally broken ones"

[Billlewis]

She has to be pretty toxic for me to not be interested in dating/serving her;)

[Kodvik]

Well haha, yeah... Again, personal preferences tho... But I'm sure even if she is toxic, you still prefer when she alternates it with being nice and rewarding you haha... That was the point.

That most of the guys are into a nice and loving person... Some like it a bit more "rough" and some the mix of it.

[Kodvik]

I'm a helpless romantic myself.. So yeah, my personal preference is for her to be loving, nice, and very present

[Billlewis]

That's fair. I just started following you and you're welcome to follow me if you want.

[dolemite58]

you’ve never heard a guy complain about a woman being too nice before cuz nice women are like unicorns 🤣

[Toriixlovely]

My ex complained about me being to nice, friendly, and etc so I’m like do guys not like nice? lol

[dolemite58]

no wonder he is ur ex then lol

[ManOnFire]

Not into mean girls by a long shot. Being a Bitch is stylized in today's world, and a lot of women buy into it without much thought. Far from attractive for me.

[Billlewis]

I'm honestly only interested in the meanest women there are.

[Toriixlovely]

& why is that?

[Billlewis]

Because like most men, I'm very selfish and inconsiderate, and the only way to keep me sweet and attentive is for her to maintain complete control over me at all times, restrict my sexual access to her as only being allowed to perform cunnilingus, anilingus, foot worship and 'after date cleanup service' after she's had sex with another guy.

[Billlewis]

Here's a written piece that sums it up quite nicely --
Guys And Ladies, Is Not Getting Any Pussy Sometimes Even Better Than Getting It? ↗

[Toriixlovely]

But, don’t you think the women who are the meanest take you for granted? Especially if you want her to control everything you do and maybe even say.

[Billlewis]

@Nckdbffb '... he wants to get off at women's expense'. That's some serious pretzel logic right there;)

[Billlewis]

Of course they do, but that's part of the deal. I don't want a 50/50 arrangement; I much prefer something more like 70/30 or 80/20, etc. That's what makes me happy and fulfilled.

[Toriixlovely]

Oooo goodness. You don’t deserve that but hey if it makes you the happiest man and it fulfills you!! By all means 😊

[Billlewis]

Say what you will, but I believe in the inherent superiority of the female, and I conduct my personal relationships in a manner that reflects that philosophy. I understand that this isn't for everyone, but it's worked for me for quite a while.

[Exterminatore]

@tori

@Billlewis is a masochist. He enjoys abuse. It’s a turn on for him. He likes demanding, bossy, and especially bitchy women. That’s how masochists are. They enjoy the audacity and boldness. They likewise enjoy being made subject to the demands and abuse of whomever they have attraction to.

Next time you’re having a bad day, find him on here and cuss his ass out. For no reason. You’ll vent, and he’ll enjoy being treated like crap. It’s a win/win. I’ll bet you $100 he would be thrilled you even paid attention to him, not to mention verbally abused him.

[Billlewis]

@Exterminatore You're quite right, Sir. I've taken some ferocious beatings over the years, most of which were administered in the presence of the friends and/or lovers of the woman (and occasionally a guy) who was taking a belt, switch, crop or cane to that ass, and venting their frustration with gusto.

[Billlewis]

@Nckdbffb You're entitled to your opinion, but not to tell me what to do, burn boy;)

[Exterminatore]

@nck

Yeah, he is a little cuck isn’t he?

[shades777]

nice looks better on everyone, i won't even entertain a mean women and might go off on her if she's ignorant

[Starrrboy]

Nice of course.. mean and toxic girls can be sometimes attractive but only from a third person perspective.. probably cuz it's just kinda exciting as most girls are so meek.. But I would never get involved with one..

[black_king]

Me personally im attracted to women with good intentions and a good heart but i dont like a woman that’s friendly with everyone just saying

[aceleon]

İf they are not masochists the answer is nice.

[DextroShade]

Nice, men don't want to deal with mean women; they will put up with it for a time if she's hot enough but everything else being equal we prefer nice girls.

[jahaims]

If they are attracted to someone mean they are immature

[dreamstar72]

In between is better because it tells and shows their true intentions and feelings

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nice to the point of it being adorable.

Bitchiness is a huge red flag.

[Chayce]

I love it when my girlfriend & I argue & she calls me a bunch of names so I can just hate fuck her r

[Shy_Steve]

If a Girl is mean then She is gonna be mean to us, Why would we like that?

[sriganesh98]

Mostly, I think men like women who are polite and kind.

[Anonymous]

Some of them are attracted to sassy ones but never bitches

[kaxeka56577]

Kind girls especially submissive.

[BLP11520]

Nice I would say

[sheikalana]

Definetely the nice ones.

[Anonymous]

Nice. Mean people suck.!

[Iron_Man]

Both spice of life

[Likes2drive]

Only nice girls

[Sunnybeach123]

I'm attracted to mean ones.

[lildkman1090]

Mean

[maroon_eyez]

Nice with a naughty mind.. i dont date mean girls

[Solo3k]

I don't like drama. So nice

[Kingofkings1992]

Nice of course. Lmao

[soe11]

Mean for ✓

[Staximus]

Nice

[Blueeyes81]

Nice.

[Luopio27]

I dint like bitches.

[tedbuoyy]

Can we chat

[Luckycharms12]

Nice of course 👌

[Masterodd]

I like them all. :)

[DreamLife7]

Assertive

[shortster]

Kindness

[dinojames22]

Nice

[Anonymous]

nice