Why do men mean when they say in here that I must have no personality if guys are only approaching me for nookie?

[Anonymous]

I’m very emotional, sensitive and sweet so I be been called. I have an expressive face. I’m not persoanlityless.

on the other hand I can also see myself as boring because I’m not some deviant cunt or full of gossip and hatred like many chicks are. I’m quite innocent.

[zeitgeist057]

They don't know you, they're just putting you in a box. That's what a lot of people do. It's just a human tendency to categorize (people, and other things). It doesn't mean anything, it's just a superficial analysis, based on limited data.

Of course, you can look at it as you have done, ask yourself if there is any truth to it, and what you want to do about it. Do you think you have no personality? What do you think it means to have no personality? Why do you think men only approach you for nookie?

[ManOnFire]

Hm. Sounds like these guys are only saying that just to bring you down. I don't know if guys are approaching you or not, or if you have a body they want or not, but from your details you sound pretty sincere. Especially with the fact that you know how other women are. When a gender is able to acknowledge even the bad ways about their gender, it's a strong indication that you have good awareness.

[Asker]

Thanks so much.

[Anonymous]

You seem to be under the misconception that someone who isn't a deviant cunt or full of gossip and hatred is boring. There is nothing positive about those traits.

[jahaims]

They mean you aren't interesting more so when they say get a personality.