Why do only douchey guys approach me?

[Anonymous]

I'm attracted to nerdy, shy guys. The only ones who approach me are man-whore assholes who think they are entitled to everyone and is better than everyone. Is it the way I dress? I dress pretty Tom boyish 99% of the time. Kind of like this.

WTF can I do to stop this? 😂

[Stoner710]

Some with your looks is gonna attracts more then just nerd and shy guy. Now there is a reason why nerd and shy guy are rarely seen with girls like you. Your hot a shy guy in nervous enough already nerd would be a little more bold but still your way to good looking for a nerd to think he has a chance with a girl like you honestly they probably think you have an ass hole jock boyfriend. Now if your after nerd guys I would recommend learning how to play at less one of these games magic the gathering great game and you being a girl and attractive I’m sure you would have no trouble getting someone to teach you. Just go to wizard of the cost. com type in magic the gathering and they have a feature on there where you can find tournaments to go to and play and meat guys. Or Yu-Gi-Oh I’ve never played that one myself but I’ve know people who play and it’s easyer then magic the gathering. Of corse there’s D&D I know less about that one then Yu-Gi-Oh but it should be fun. But yea anyone who plays throughs games is most likely your type. Your still gonna get hit on by the assholes but you don’t have to do anything with them

[Pap007]

I'm sure nerdy boys and shy boys like you, specially with the kind of style you have. But you have to remember shy and nerdy boys don't have the guts to go up and talk to you easily... and also they might feel totally out - styled by your kind of style. They'll feel like they have no chance up against you.

[Alice993]

I think you're showing a bit much skin, nothing against you your body looks awesome:), but I think it might be cuz of the high heels/crop tops.

[Alice993]

Thanks^^

[Bandit74]

Shy guys lack confidence and usually don't approach anyone.

Douchey guys have lots of confidence and approach lots of girls.

This means that most girls are more likely to be approached by douches than they are to be approached by a shy guy.

Then on top of that your style gives off more of a promiscuous vibe so you are even more likely to be approached by guys looking for sex.

[Anon-ymous1]

Yeah this is a lot of it. Not a bad take.

[Anon-ymous1]

There's nothing wrong with dressing this way if you're actually sexy enough to pull it off, like this girl is. But that can be intimidating for us. The guys you're attracted to aren't used to approaching anyone at all, much less girls that look like the girl above. You may have to be the one to make the first move if you want to land one like that. Good luck.

[Scotian]

Because that's the style hootchies wear... no decent woman stands like that, shows skin like that or acts like that... BE NERDY. Dress how. you want but add pieces of nerdy flair that you dig

[spoopyscaryskeleton]

Well, suga, maybe you should do the approaching because you look confident as fuck. And you like shy guys, just do it.

[Anonymous]

Yes. With looks like that you can only attract douchebags. Some shy guys will be intimidated by it and will give up, others will find it repulsive.

[aboringuy]

Because the nerdy ones know it failed before even trying.

[Kayso]

Nerdy, shy guys would be way nervous by your beauty

[MrClarke]

Cuz you dress for those type of guys attention. You claim to like shy guys but wear a hootchie uniform made for douchebag attention.

[Saxinger]

I would be way to shy to approach you

[lastcall95]

Because non-douches are to shy to approach you.

[itsjoshua]

Must be the chavy clothes

[disgustingweebtrash]

No idea

[yash10]

Hey love

[Anonymous]

Just coincidence