There's a miriad of reasons a dude may not approach you but these 3 are the general ones:
1. He's intimidated by your hottness. It's true. All of the sh*t that guys talk and they are still chickens when it comes down to it. Even the best looking guys can be victim to this.
2. He likes you but has a girl. Most guys (if they don't have a girlfriend) have about at least 5-10 girls they are already talking to so they may either proceed with caution (to add another girl to the roster) or they may be too shy (which means they probably don't know what to say or don't wanna look like a fool in front of you).
3. I call it (don't be offended) "Putting the Pussy on a Pedastool". Some guys place women so far out of reach that they can't possibly see themselves with her so they'd rather admire her from afar.
Your best response? If you're not afraid of rejection, go ask the guy out (I mean only if you're attracted to him). He will be more surprised than you think. Most guys don't know how to deal with that because it puts their backs against a wall however it takes the pressure of of them to make a move.
If he says "no", f*** him...I'm sure you have plenty of other guys lookin at your hott ass
A lot of girls bring up this question (that ask why guys don't just approach them), and they usually make it sound easier than it is. Because 1. Assuming you WANT this guy to approach you, it's not like he knows that. I mean, if I KNEW a particular girl wanted me to approach her I would. But usually guys are reluctant to approach a girl because they think they will either be rejected or the girl won't be interested. It's a defense mechanism, truth is most guys have sensitive egos, it's usually only the more confident, cocky guys that will approach any girl on a whim. Most guys, however, will procrastinate in approaching a girl until he finally musters up the confidence or he's more sure the girl will respond positively.
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That is because he is intimidated by the fear of rejection.
OR
He thinks that you are too good for him.
Does this happen often ? Why not smile when he looks at you ? That way his fear will lessen & he will approach you.
The courage it takes to approach a woman and say "hey, you look quite pretty" or "want to hang out sometime" or "would you go out with me" is high. It takes no courage to glance at a woman who is showing her body to the general public.
It is because he is shy. you should try talking to him because it is going to be hard for him to talk to you
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