What can I do about having to see a guy around who has been abusive before and inappropriately touched me on our date (I feel sad seeing him)?

[Anonymous]

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+1 y

He’s my neighbor *** so yeah I might see him

[slatyb]

Where do you see him? Do you have to engage with him? consider getting some counseling and talk through it.

[Asker]

My neighbor

[scentoflavender]

Then why are you continuing to see him? Just stop doing that.

[Asker]

He’s my neighbor girl

[glennos89]

Kick him in the nuts without hasitating. That will teach him 😂

[Asker]

Yeah he kept putting his hand under my underwear and ass even after I moved it and I think he might have some alcohol dependency issues. This was at his house.

[glennos89]

Next time if he will behave inappropriate again, warn him firmly that you will ring the cops and put charges against him for sexual assault. Thrust me...

No guy wants to be in jail for that kind of behaviour because being in jail as a sex offender you going to be in for a dangerous ride in their.

Certain crimes are unacceptable in a jail society and being amongst violent and dangerous dudes can be dangerous just as it is if you cannot or will not defend yourself but it's especially dangerous when you are a sex offender. Then you better stay inside your room because everyone in there will hate you and know what you have done.

So make sure you set boundary's before he even gets the chance to do it again and make sure you will report him if he ignores those boundary's!