How to treat a guy I hurt?

[Anonymous]

There is a guy i really liked for some time. We kissed few times and went out. I turned him down then. It is like a year ago and now i have a boyfriend. We didn't talk together for a long time. Recently we started talking again. It is not much of a serious talk, we like tease each other and stuff. He seems fine now. He smiles, crack jokes but it is just different. I know he was really hurt back then. I dont know if he is over it now but as i said he looks better now. But often i can see a pain in his eyes when i am with my boyfriend and this guy is around. I dont want him to be in pain. I think he is really good guy and wish him the best. I know i broke his heart i am sorry for that. I hope he finds a girl that will make him smile and happy. How to treat him?

[Anonymous]

I don’t think you broke his heart, he wasn’t in love with you for that. I’m also not sure how you can tell what pain is for him when you hardly know the guy outside of casual exchanges. Rejection happens, it was a long time and I’m sure he’s fine now. My advice is to stop fixating over another guys feelings when you have your own boyfriend to focus on. There’s nothing to be guilty over, move on hun.

[shades777]

leave him alone if you not trying to be his girlfriend, that sounds like abuse, your basically rubbing your relationship in his face, knowing he wanted to be with you.


I had a girl i dated back then did the same thing, she got pregnant and married tgen she come around trying to be friends I told herI wasn't with her showboating, knowing I wanted to be with her, not cool.


Just leave the man alone.

[mobiusforniner]

If you have a boyfriend and you still feel something for this other boy, you still like this other boy...