Why does he only compliment my body (from the neck down) and not really my face?

[Anonymous]

[DannyUk2017]

Because he is just a , tomboy, fuckboy, maleslut, that just appreciates your shape and sizes, so he likes/loves just the SHELL but not the PEARL, which that is a major Red flag, i'll say just dump his ass and find someone who appreciates the WHOLE package, not just the "chasis"...🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

I think I’m going to give up on dating and holding out hope that I’ll ever meet that person tbh.

[DannyUk2017]

Is no need to give up dating, is just you need to "test" before you throw youself out on a "plate" for someone that cannot see past your body...

[Asker]

Um I never do that though. I’m not “easy” in fact I’m not even sexually experienced at my age.

[DannyUk2017]

I didn't say you're easy hun, i just said to test, in the sense to "test them" their intentions, to see if they are up to "just some fun" or up to something more serious. 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Got it. Well I don’t know how to present myself anymore. I’m the kind of girl who’s sexy and looks like she could be in playboy but also wears turtlenecks and glasses and your grandmother would love. Some men can’t seem to see that women are multi dimensional.

[DannyUk2017]

Yeah, so.. by the description sounds like the man was just after your Body and nothing more...🤷‍♂️, i'm sorry for that.

[DannyUk2017]

Also by your description sounds like you're a "sexy nerd", so that man must have never had a girl like you...🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Well I don’t feel comfortable dating anymore. I’m also depressed and just don’t have the motivation. :/

[DannyUk2017]

Fair enough... then just take " a break" get some time for yourself, and come back in to "dating" world when you feel like it, no body will ask you to just try, and try, i know how that feels... i feel your pain...

[Asker]

It’s just so hard to date when you have a big heart and genuinely have a lot to offer and nothing works out. Some jerks in my life literally comment about this and tell me I’m so lonely I should find someone.

[DannyUk2017]

Is not that "nothing works out" is just You are Not Appreciated, and that hurts like hell, so from any "good" that you put out there, and get shit in return, you feel like just want to give POISON instead of Good, that's what i hate too...🤷‍♂️, but this is the "world" we live in... Today!

[Asker]

That makes so much sense. I’m not sure how to be appreciated — I don’t think anyone is even interested. But I want to continue being a sweet girl and good person. I don’t want to become bitter or mean.

[DannyUk2017]

Then just keep yourself at anyone's "arm lenght" until you feel is the "right time" to open yourself up.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Men only really see attraction in the sense that physical appearance is all that matters, and a good personality is just a bonus. I’m willing to bet he just isn’t emotionally open enough to tell you what parts of your mind he likes, if any, but he’s happy to tell you about the parts of your body he feels he can brag about to his friends.

[Asker]

I doubt he’s talking about me to friends

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Okay, and you disagree with the rest too?

[Asker]

I think he just straight up hates me

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Then stop talking to him, do both of you a favor

[Anonymous]

What part?

If it's just boobs, ass , he's just a lusty ass

[Asker]

Yeah I sent him a pic without my face in it once and it was a pic of my boobs in my bikini top and he was like “You look incredible 🤤” and my face isn’t even in the pic…
So yeah boobs and ass and doesn’t want to kiss or anything.

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn't want to kiss?
Seems he's just into fcking and sex and not intimate with you or loves you as a person which is weird

[Asker]

Refuses to turn his head to kiss or anything.
I feel like a hooker.
I’m so disgusted. It’s destroyed my self esteem.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly... it's disgusting that he wants only sex and makes you feel like a hooker
I am really sorry that such lusty men exist, hope you won't hate us all

[ChicoFromThe305]

Im in no position to say cause i dont know