We've been dating with this guy for a few days and when we were kissing, he wanted me to sit on his lap. Is this for tension or what do you think he means when a guy wants you to sit on his lap while kissing?
When a guy wants you to sit on his lap while kissing, it often signifies a desire for intimacy, closeness, and physical connection. This gesture can convey various things depending on the context and the nature of your relationship.
Sitting on his lap while kissing can be a way for him to express affection and deepen the emotional bond between you two. It can create a sense of closeness and warmth that goes beyond a simple kiss. In a romantic setting, it can also be a playful and romantic gesture, symbolizing his attraction to you and a desire to share a special moment together.
This act can also be charged with sexual desire and passion. It may suggest that he's in the mood for more intimate physical contact and is using kissing as a way to initiate further physical intimacy.
You should communicate openly with your partner and ensure that you are both comfortable with the level of physical intimacy. Consent and mutual comfort are crucial in any romantic or intimate interaction.
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It is a little more intimate is my guess. There is a lot more contact between the two of you. I don't know what other reason there would be. Not a fan of doing that because I would feel like I was making him uncomfortable sitting on him even if he said he wasn't. I am not self conscious about my weight or anything like that either. He just wants to have more physical contact with you is all.
Tension? It's awesome. There's a girl on your lap. I didn't voice the request, I guided her with my hands like we're dancing, lead her where I wanted her to go. Sometimes she would do it of her own accord, I benefit either way.
Personally I'm just very cuddly so I like that.
I don't know. Sometimes you're like madly in love with eachother when it first starts off. That's always fun.
But if it's not like that, than I have no idea why.
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So that you can intimately cuddle each other while passionately kissing.
Can’t say for a guy, but it’s definitely my favorite spot to sit while kissing.
It makes it so the kissing is vag to dick and it makes it more sexual
Many guys like to feel a woman's body against theirs. And it's quite an intimate position which allows more free body exploration. Enjoy it :)
It feels good to have a girl sit on your lap. And for me it does have a lot to do with the pressure on my crotch. Plus it's intimate.
Same thing it meant when last week when this question was asked.
He probably wants to talk about the first thing that comes up.
In addition to the feeling of lips touching, bodies touching is very intimate... and nice.
He wants you to be his piece of chicken for on his shaslick 🍡
He wants to hold you better more plus he probably wants you to feel what you are doing to him as you are sitting on his lap
I'd do that becuase I would want to subtley show you that kissing is turning me on :-)
It means you have a nice ass and it feels good on his boner. What? TMI?
AH to talk about the first thing to come between you.
He's Romantic But Still
Wants U To Tease Him A BitWell I love that I like to grab the butt in that position
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Bond more closely
... What do you think it means?
Just a cuddling position I guess
He wants your butt squish kissing his weiner
probably likes the way your breathe smell
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