So I met this guy at conference. We exchanged our insta ids by the end of the two day conference. We started talking amd causally flirt with each other. He said his life was bitter but while talking to me he feels life can be sweet too. He refers to me as a kind, gentle, warm soul. But at the same time he said he's very rugged. He break things, his hands can't handle beautiful things. He has this sad melancholic vibe to him when we have deep convos. He said he can't eat sugar but now slowly he's like sweet things (he was referring to me🙈). while sayin that I'm kind and gentle he also said that he wonders if the harsh world has hurt you? And how do you cope of it does hurt you?
We were having discussion about bdays and he said he doesn't like bdays. No bad memory attached to it but he has grown with so much care. Now that he's an adult he doesn't want that soft spot. He says on bday he clings to people a lot and becomes very emotionally fragile and that's the feeling he doesn't like.
Does he sound like a red flag or am I color blind? Is he giving me heads up that he is messed up and eventually you should find someone better? Or is he just gradually opening up to me?
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From reading this I can't get a good read on this guy... I don't know if he is trying to be that moody victim type, if he is just full of crap or what. I kind of feel he wants you to feel sorry for him... Maybe he thinks that's the quickest way to your heart and your bed. I think getting more info is important before you make any major decisions. But hanging out with him more should be ok for now.
Thank you for your views, I'll keep it in my mind.
You can't judge in one meet. About a person. As guys are the most complex one. He might be a cheesy talker. If you know him then you can talk and if not then these guy are never" one girl man" he might like you for your physical appearance if you met him for the very first time.
Thank you for your views. I'll keep it in my mind.