Should I stop contact with him?

[Anonymous]

There is a male coworker with whom I have a friendly relationship. I am introverted, reserved, and shy, and I don't get attached easily. However, after spending a lot of time together, I found myself attached to him. We love and respect each other as people. I thought he liked me a lot, but he never opened up because he was afraid of ruining our friendship. Even though we saw each other every day, he sometimes ghosted me. At times, he would text me actively and be attentive, but then months would pass without any sign he liked me. Maybe he was being manipulative. He would text me and then leave me on read while being active in mutual chat groups. I developed feelings for him, but now that he is moving to another city, I am considering cutting off all connection on social media. Is this okay, or am I being childish?

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the classic tale of mixed signals and ghosting wrapped in the guise of a workplace romance! It's quite the rollercoaster you've been on. Striking a balance between preserving a cherished friendship and protecting your heart can feel like walking a tightrope in a hurricane. Your feelings are valid, and honestly, considering lowering the social media bridge isn't childish—it's self-care. If his hot-and-cold behavior has been more confusing than a crossword puzzle, cutting off social media connection can give you the space you need to heal and move on. Sometimes, distancing yourself is the healthiest move you can make. Reflect on what brings you peace and go with that. Trust me, you're not only saving your heart but also rebooting your emotional energy for someone who won't leave you hanging on read.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh girl, I feel you. That dude totally played with your feelings! Here's what I think:

Cutting him off socially is probably for the best. You don't need that confusion and mixed signals in your life. It'll just hold you back from meeting someone who properly likes you.

I get being introverted makes it hard not to dwell, but blocking/deleting is the clean break you need. Out of sight, out of mind and all that.

Plus as a coworker, keeping things professional is safest. Him ghosting then texting just adds drama to your workday vibes.

Don't feel childish at all! You were mature putting yourself out there despite shyness. Now it's his loss, and time for you to focus on folks who appreciate you consistent style!

Chin up sis! This freed up space for an awesome new friend/boyfriend to come along when you least expect it. You do you - he ain't worth the headspace.

[BadApple69]

If nothing has happened yet, it never will. You are wasting your time. Move on. Keeping him as a friend or not is your choice.